From Approval to Acceptance – Approval is for your inner circle only!

This is among advanced posts, the whole problem is quite a difficult concept to wrap your head around. This is relevant to M8R10 people primarily. If you feel you have TOO MANY PEOPLE pushing their way into your inner circle, and that you have to constantly kind of protect yourself from people trying to “get in” so to speak, this is very possibly your answer.

Do you possibly have this inner need to judge others constantly, as in, do you have this internal debate on whether you APPROVE of a person or not? Are they a good person, right? This dialogue is something that makes the assessed think you are contemplating on TRUSTING THEM WITH YOUR LIFE. This is likely not what you are thinking about, you maybe thinking about it on a philosophical level. You may have taken it into a habit to assess other people, to pass judgment. This gives you an energy where you are continually looking for NEW INSIDERS. Like catnip, in other words.

You may also have an energy of ACCEPTANCE toward those who you already know you like. This means “OK, you can go now”. Therefore, the ones who you are still kind of debating are the ones trying to seek your favor, and the ones you’ve accepted will go away as well… They’re already in, or perhaps you’re just not interested in them.

Make a change

Therefore, sift your energy thusly: If you’re not interested in a person on a personal level, not to hire them, not to befriend them, nor to become romantically involved with them, accept them. Simply accept them for who they are; they are good enough for this world, aren’t they? You have to accept them to be OK enough to keep breathing. Accept the fact they are not your friends, because you don’t want them to be, therefore, you can let them be.

Forgive them for not being one of your favorite people. Forgive them for being lukewarm to you.

Whatever they’re doing with THEIR friends is their business, not yours. (If this is difficult, study this website more to understand how other people’s way of being friends can seem way brutal to you. You don’t need to be concerned about that. Let adults you don’t want to make your personal friends handle their own crap. If you want to help them, start a blog.)

Approval is for the inner circle only

Take a judgmental/approval pending -attitude for people you want to sleep with, befriend, or hire as an employee. Stay mindful about things that matter and what doesn’t matter. Are you good enough for me for… PERSONALLY. Can you trust them. Would you be proud to be seen with them? Would they be able to give to you what you can give to them? (Both men and women need to do this!)

Your True Emotion Mirrors will go wild with this energy. It is actually super, super, super sexy energy to feel from a True Emotion Mirror (or a sexy partial. Crap when it’s someone you don’t love. So this will do two things; Turn on your authentic inner circle and be offputting to those who don’t truly love you.)

People who likely have this problem

If you are a celebrity, a public figure, a social media influencer, someone intelligent, successful, popular etc, people will SEEK your approval. This may have given you a warped idea of who you should be approving of and who you should merely accept. This is likely to flip your energy upside down. So, when people are “asking you” if they are good-looking, smart enough, spiritual enough, good enough people, give them acceptance but not approval. “You’re good enough – for someone else” being the energy. Make sure you NEVER say things like “I like you. Well I’d feel lucky to have you…” if you don’t mean that LITERALLY. THEY WON’T REALIZE you mean that on a theoretical level: “Well if I was on the same level as you, I’d be happy to have you”.

To YOU it may seem OBVIOUS you are way above them in rank. (I mean this for people who are unknown and even poor and unemployed at times because this is not REALLY a success thing but rather a potential thing). To THEM it might not. Don’t be sucked into giving APPROVAL to people you’re supposed to simply ACCEPT.

Got it?

Remember that you’re supposed to match lambs to lambs and wolves to wolves. Don’t be the wolf that tries to contemplate whether a lamb would make a good spouse or a hunting partner.

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