Giving children responsibility.

the Old Souls* and the Young Soul* must be raised differently.

the Old Souls* need freedom. All the freedom you can give them – and they will gladly show you that they will use that freedom responsibly. They don’t want to lose their freedom; they will work their assess off to gain freedom.

Now, the Young Soul* will do anything to gain your trust, to gain the responsibilities of other family members. They feel like a real adult if they’re given responsibility for others.

This means that you give the Old Souls* responsibility for themselves and the Young Soul* responsibility for family members. So. Let’s talk about dinner time: Your the Cat Thinking kids will appreciate an open buffet or, better yet, shopping and cooking for themselves. If you live close enough to a store, you give them an allowance or put money into a jar and tell them to bring you receipts if they go shopping.

You’ll find a Cat Thinking child using very little money for the best solutions, and they’ll use that money very frugally and responsibly as they never want to get into any trouble with their parents and lose their freedoms. They are very responsible kids, and they want you to be proud of that. You do this with the Young Soul* Thinking kid, and you’ll find them spending it all on candy as a form of rebellion: “Look, bitch, I’m a kid. You need to take the fuck care of me as this is negligence!!”

Rule of thumb: the Old Souls* take responsibility for themselves (and the community). The Young Soul* take responsibility for other family members.

Your the Old Souls* child may seem irresponsible to the Young Soul* Thinking parent, because they show no interest or care toward their family members. They’re impatient with them and downright nasty if you try to orient them that way. They are the ones poised to become the next American President, if you get my meaning; they take responsibility of other people; strangers, communities, the homeless and needy – or whomever they decide to be important to them. For this purpose, they first learn to take care of themselves, and they’ll soon align themselves for the higher good.

Your the Young Soul* child may seem unwieldy and uncontrollable to a Cat Thinking parent because if it’s not nailed down and forbidden, they will try to see what happens if they break the rules. If you give them freedom, they abuse it to the highest degree. They are the ones you leave your baby with and they’ll protect their sibling with their lives. They will meticulously warm the baby’s milk bottle to the perfect temperature but ask them to take responsibility for themselves, and you’ll find yourself with a seething angry rebel.

You mix these two types, and you have a disaster on your hands.

Negotiation: “John is busy doing his thing…”

You take care of your the Cat Thinking kid by making it easy for them to do their own thing. You don’t ask questions, you don’t get in the way – but just be aware of how they spend their time and show pride in the good things they do, whether it is for themselves (they work to get rich so they can help others later – or to buy their freedom if their parents are too suffocating.)

It’s UNLIKELY that your the Young Soul* Thinking child complains about his or her family duties, but they might scoff at their lesser sibling who is out there “doing their thing.” Just explain to them simply and casually that it is the rule that John gets to do what John does, because he’s responsible for the things he’s doing.

You must help your the Young Soul* Thinking child understand the roles in the family, and they’ll be happy enough. To them, the parent’s word goes. To be fair, a Old Souls* also respects his parents, but ONLY if they allow them the room to grow into their responsibilities outside the home.

the Young Soul* keep you comfortable, the Old Souls* bring you status, wealth, and prosperity.

The Old Souls*’ and the Young Soul*’s role in the family is different. There’s a division of labor. The Young Soul* make sure everyone is well fed, comfortable, happy – that there’s enough family dinners and events and fun to take part in; the Old Souls* will build wealth and prosperity, even status and positions for the family… But ONLY if they have the freedom to so. If you limit that freedom, they’ll eventually take it by force and you’ll never see them again… Or their money. (If you are so oppressive your spiritual influence will stop them from moving completely, they’ll never see the money, either, no matter how hard they work… But you’ll never see them, rich or poor.)

This is not a gender thing.

You should know that although we associate home and family duties with girls and building a career outside the home with boys, this is not a gender thing. The Young Soul* Thinking boys are downright JEALOUS of girls who get to take care of the family, and you should be very well aware of this considering all the trans stuff going on. Similarly, don’t force your the Cat Thinking girl to transition sexes just so they’ll gain the freedoms of a male child.

the Old Souls* girls are first and second wave feminists who fought to have the same rights as men do, professionally and sexually. The Young Soul* are third wave feminists who fight to get the same entitlements and protection back that they lost in the emancipation of women. To the Young Soul* there is such a thing as “too much freedom,” and frankly, the same might be true for a Old Souls* who had to break through all limitations and now has nothing left to respect.

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