Good looks is VITALLY important for (monogamist) True Emotion Mirrors

I want to present something rather controversial as far as the idea of true love goes. I believe that good looks is more often than not the key factor in whether a True Emotion Mirror relationship gets off the ground or not. When a person gets into a relationship with someone less attractive than what they wish for, it’s usually with a Basal Principle Mirror*, not a True Emotion Mirror. The reason for this is as follows: When you feel you are falling in love with a True Emotion Mirror, you know there’s no turning back from that love after a while. Therefore, if you DON’T want to settle for a person who looks like X, you milk the feelings to the limit of the point of no return and run. When it’s a lesser connection, you stick around as you know you can always call it quits when something better comes along.

Potential State True Emotion Mirrors are the ones you can still walk away from with relative ease. Once the bond starts to truly develop, it’s going to get too hot and heavy to walk away from. Therefore, a lot of people keep tapping into this Potential State, where things are still super hot but nowhere near commitment. Another reason to run is to not have experience on how these feelings will last commitment – but that’s another post.

So it is not true that true love is blind to good looks, although some people don’t care about it at all. However, if it is important to you that your partner is good-looking, you can walk away from a Potential True Emotion Mirror with the idea: “I want you, but in a better-looking body”. And if this is a key difference between you two, you’ll remain in the Potential State, which will change only if your ideals change over time and become a match.

Beauty and good looks are also a mental value, and good-looking people think differently to people who don’t want to emphasize that, and that mindset, whichever way you swing, is one of the deciding factors whether you’ll be Mr. or Mrs. Right or Mr. or Mrs. Right Now. And I’m not telling anyone to change their looks on this basis, but to make damned sure that you want to live or die romantically because you insist on looking the way you do. Also, make a note of this: Insisting that someone needs to love you even though you look like… well, s***, is an ego thing. Pride. Too proud to conform to beauty ideas. Your call.

What’s HONESTLY important to you? How do you REALLY want to look – good honest, no bull. Stick with that, because you’ll have to commit to those looks the same way as you have to commit to a love everlasting, so if you want that love to last, you need to be who you are, your ideal self, in all aspects, because that’s who you’ll be stuck with or you’ll lose the love… And frankly, if you’re not your ideal self, you won’t find true love anyway, because your true lovers are like dogs: they smell insecurity and you not being happy with your own choices. So don’t be pressured one way or the other, but make sure you will choose whatever you TRULY want, and allow others to do the same.

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