H2. Soulmates

The basis of this entire theory is the study of soulmate connections. I have built a categorization of different types of soulmates, some of which are not healthy, and I thrive to understand and solve these connections; heal the ones that need to be healed, and release the ones that need releasing.

Unfortunately, in real life, things are rarely simple and poised as much as we’d like them to be.

Not a marriage counselor, or even an advocate of marriage

I am not a marriage counselor. In my view, marriage is an entirely human-made concept that is supposed to mimic True Emotion Mirror love by forcing a Trail Companion* to mimic the natural expression and outcome of True Love; True Emotion Mirror -pairing. Many times, my advice is plain: “If you want to find true love, divorce your spouse.” Marriage is a constraint with only one purpose: To stop the natural flow from happening… Namely, one spouse leaving the other once they actually DO find true love.

Yet, True Emotion Mirror love IS as much a marriage than a relationship can be – whether between two people or a soup, a sexual and romantic group. You will never KNOW the true meaning of the words “a wife” or “a husband” until you meet a True Emotion Mirror couple or soup. With a TrEmoR, those words become the natural part of the relationship, even if there is no governmental backing to it. The paper becomes a formality, not the magic wand.

True Emotion Mirrors are also not faithful to each other “until death do you part”, but their devotion to each other spans lifetimes, ages, even. Some, millions of years – and counting.

Main Trap

There are two main love ideals people are seeking in reality. One is based on finding a partner and then making that work as a romantic idea, the other is finding THE RIGHT partner and figuring out how the natural dynamic works. The former refers to normal marriage, the second to True Emotion Mirror relationship. Once you’ve come anywhere near a True Emotion Mirror, you wonder why anyone would want the normal marriage, but still, some people do. And those people are more than persistent in their conviction that nothing is better than a marriage.

When these two types of people marry – and they do that frequently – they guarantee that the True Emotion Mirror -type, or, rather, the Savants*, is going to be unhappy in that union. The other is blind and indifferent to that. More marriages than anything are based on this Main Trap, built by the normal person’s ignorance of True Emotion Mirrors, and the TrEmoRs fear that this love truly is just an unattainable fantasy… Too good to be true, too good to last.

the Savants* must stop fearing. They must learn why the Normal Person* are so enamored with this idea of mundane, dispassionate relationships with the main objective of having and raising children together in, what to a TrEmoR seems like a factory setting.

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