He/She may not be looking for the same kind of “true love” as you are.

Don’t get me wrong; if you’ve found your True Emotion Mirror, even if you’re on different pages right now, it doesn’t mean you’re not in the same book or belong together in the last chapter. However, it is also entirely possible that you are thinking a side character in that book is your main character simply because he’s handsome or she’s pretty – not that your True Emotion Mirror, your true counterpart wouldn’t be. (They always are perfect in your eyes, no matter what anyone else thinks, and they feel the same way about you.)

However, whether this is your True Emotion Mirror or not, you have to know what they mean by looking for true love. Sometimes you can ask, and sometimes you’ll have to figure it out through other means. When people talk about true love, there’s two main categories that they speak about; 1. Someone to share the challenges of everyday life and its duties as a reliable partner and companion, and 2. Someone to make their mundane everyday existence exciting by being who they are.

Group one (the Normal Person*thinkers) think everyday life is scary, and they want someone willing to commit to sharing it. They’re thinking stuff like doing household chores together, growing a mutual bank balance, and picking the kids up from school every day synchronized with someone (not necessarily special. Just someone.)

Group two (the Savants* thinkers) this everyday life is kinda easy and boring, and they’re looking for someone exciting to make it romantic for them. They are absolutely NOT thinking about household chores or money when looking for “the right one”, but they maybe well thinking about sex, romance, and mutual hobbies and interests; fun stuff. They can easily imagine skipping the whole playing house thing for someone who understands life the same way as they do. They’d exchange a comfortable, reliable living with a partner for a rug and a fireplace and a lifelong erotic romance.

Neither group is in NO WAY gender-typical. Both types are equally represented by both genders. Now, if you are True Emotion Mirrors, truthfully, you both want the same thing, but you maybe TRYING TO OFFER your partner the other, thinking that’s what men/women want. If you’re trying to demonstrate your wealth on a Savants* woman, trying to express how you can afford to marry her now and make her feel secure, she won’t understand your meaning because all she’s thinking about is how she’s going to get you to stay naked in bed with her for the rest of her life. If, on the other hand, you’re trying to flaunt your sexuality to a man who wants marriage and kids with you, he will easily reject you for “wanting a different thing than what he’s looking for.”

Therefore, it is important that you are honest in your approaches, and maybe drop hints about what it is that you HONESTLY WANT, and DO NOT TRY TO PLEASE this person, because if you ARE True Emotion Mirrors, even if both of you would give up on what you actually want for the other, deep down you both actually want the same thing. IF on the other hand, this is NOT your True Emotion Mirror, it is ALSO important for you to not lie, because you don’t want to wind up wasting time on the wrong person, now do you?

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