He, your true love can see you, you know…

Today, a massive revelation to me about HOW do soulmates (True Emotion Mirrors) know when it is time for them to reunite. I have brushed on this topic before, but it does need some tweaking so, here we go.

You know how you are told that you have to do spiritual work in order to bring your True Emotion Mirror back to you? This advice is half way there, but needs a bit of scrutiny to really get to the bottom of it, because frankly, men don’t do spiritual work and yet, somehow we’re supposed to reunite. The premise of “spiritual work” is not to go overboard with spirituality (although often we do) but to clear out your personal traumas and package. Now, the reason why we don’t know what we are supposed to thrive at exactly is that the judge of when you are finally back to your old self is your Sacral soulmate (TF), not God or the Universe or Cupid sitting on a cloud. Your soulmate is going to say that okay, “now I trust you”.

This is what it’s mainly about; his trust for you. His trust that:

1. You are free to be with him for the rest of your life without for a moment looking back.

2. You will be balanced enough to not hurt him with emotional turmoil that causes you to attack him (or if it so may be; he wants to know you DO attack him because he thinks you’re so cute when you’re angry).

3. You have become yourself, and he doesn’t need to change you into something he thinks you should be. (Did I fall in love with the wrong person?)

He will have his own standards to add to this, by which he judges you and your readiness to do this. He will do this… in spirit.

What this most likely means that if you are holding onto a past that will keep him at bay; mostly your (ex-)husband, he will not come even close. If there is anything that he can mistake for feelings for another man, he will not risk getting hurt. If you have children with another man, he will be twice as cautious to put himself on the line. Sadly, no matter how many soulmates you have, if you are holding onto someone else as a back up plan, they’ll all elude you. HOWEVER, none of this is black and white, because your soulmate maybe reading you wrong due to his own insecurities, where someone else would not. That is why it is sometimes easy as wink to get back with a soulmate, and sometimes it’s never going to happen. There is no certain level of self-awareness to achieve, only the level that is required in you to discover things that are holding you back in any way.

What you must be thinking is yourself and what you need to do for yourself in order to be happy, assuming that your soulmate may never return to you, ever, or that they will take a hell of a long time to do so. You cannot hold onto him for a rescue, because that is one of those things that will send him running –  he doesn’t owe you anything, soulmates or not. If you treat him as your only hope for true love, he will elude you. (That is why True Emotion Mirror -mindset is so very dangerous to true love.)

The worst part is that you can’t play him. You can take all the outward steps in order to convince him and yourself of your readiness, but if he sees through you that something about you is still holding back, he will stay away.

Of course this also works the other way around too, (girls can see the guy) but it’s mostly this way around. The reason being that women are generally treated so tenderly that they never have to face their own issues. Men are scrutinised on a daily basis, but women can get away with all weakness of character without being confronted. When they are, they have a ton of readily available excuses at their disposal: “They don’t like me because I’m too fat” for one thing, if a fat man would get the same criticism, he would say “I must do something about my weight to prove I can!” Men are hard-wired to better themselves – or accept defeat – but women hide behind a bucket load of convenient excuses. If you want to have your soulmate back, you need to start looking at the uncomfortable and put in the hard yards to become The Best Woman You Can Be.

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