Healing (some) physical ailments.

I’m not saying you can grow a limb back or anything. Just that there are physical ailments, typically those that doctors have no idea what caused them, that are spiritually inflicted by something—psycho-somatic symptoms, if you will. These ailments can be a result of a number of things – unresolved psychological pains, past life traumas, or… A soulmate bind gone sour.

Follow the pain.

I am not sure exactly how to explain how this works, but try your best to feel your way into it. You don’t have to consciously know what you’re unearthing, but perhaps invite your soulmates to be present in spirit, and then do this; so they will know in spirit what you will dig up, even if you weren’t consciously aware of all of it or even any of it as you go forward: Follow the physical pain into the source of it. Suppose you have persistent migraines like myself. You feel the pain in one side of your forehead, but it is shooting up from somewhere, through your neck, down to your spine, and then, where from there? In my case, it was somewhere in the deep gut area, and that’s where I started pushing things up in my mind. Maybe you’ll use your hands to give emphasis to the thought; follow your instinct because frankly, I am not an expert yet. 😀 I have managed to cure one bout of migraines with this, the last one, I’d hope but we’ll see.

So you’ll let your trusted soulmates feel what hurt you, what causes you the physical pain. You may be ashamed of whatever you are piling up, and there might be a lot of guilt, but let them see it – even your enemies. Shield yourself from it if you must, but let your friends and enemies know. Let them forgive you, or let them finally take the burden of hurting you, even if you don’t know for what. It may be that you’ve pretended you don’t care, and they’re still trying to hurt you so you’d know you hurt them by not caring – Uh, relationships! You don’t truly need to understand it, but just unearth it; let them know the truth, even if you can’t follow it.

These pains can be caused by true love, just stuff you haven’t told them, stuff they’ve assumed, stuff you’ve chosen to forgive them without resolving the pain with them. (In my case, I’ve hidden how much my lovers hurt me by having cheated on me in my past lives – even if they’ve cheated on me thinking I don’t want sex with them myself or give a shit because I hid it all from them… I managed to gather that much in the process, but I’m very aware of things. I don’t think you need to be even that aware of the actual cause. I hope, for it to work.)

Make or break the bond.

The other possibility is that you’ve got yourself an unwanted admirer, a karmic soulmate, or an antagonizing spirit mirror as I sometimes call them. Someone who is a Precious Soulmate or True Emotion Mirror -level in love with you, but you don’t love them back the same way… Or maybe it’s a True Emotion Mirror or a Precious Soulmate, demanding recognition, but you keep denying it for some reason.

Ironically, true love gives the lovers somewhat of a free range on how to treat each other. We’ll chop off each other’s heads sometimes, just to vent a little, and in the next life, we treat it like they just slapped us gently. Immortal life gets a bit rough at times. 😉 Still, while we forgive stuff like that to a true lover, and we just go, “So why on earth did you do that for?!” the same isn’t quite true when someone who loves you one-sidedly takes such liberties with you.

If the end to their torture requires you to confess your love to them or to admit you’ve been a bad friend or a lover, and you couldn’t give less of a shit about them, you’re in a bit of a pickle. You’ve got two ways out of this situation: Either you do confess that you love them (sometimes pretence will do just fine because they already believe you love them, so pretence, to them, will work just the same) or you convince to them that you don’t, in fact, love them, or advice them on how much exactly, you love them.

Although we think we lash out in anger a lot, or that hate is the greatest motivator in punishing someone, it isn’t. Your enemies will treat you less cruelly than people who think you love them. You’ll act more cruel thinking you’ll be forgiven for anything, or that you’re doing this for the mutual benefit of you both, and that at the end of it all, your victim will see what you meant… Why you did it, than when you know that this person hates your guts and will never forgive you for what you’ve done. When you realize you’ve taken liberties with someone who never saw you as much of a friend as you did, you’ll recoil back and see your handiwork in horror. THAT is what you need to show them.

Don’t lie. If you love them, love them, there’s no shame in that, but if you don’t love them, you don’t, and that’s the end of that.

HOW you prove to someone who loves you and who thinks your love is the truest form of love ever seen on the planet that you feel very differently to that is another matter. When a mudererous attack, to them, is like an invitation to a Valentine’s Day dinner… How in God’s green Earth you make them see the light is another question, but that’s your goal if love is not what you feel for them…

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