Hero Complex – How to Protect Your True Emotion Mirrors from the Needy

Here’s the problem; the higher your vibration, the stronger all people feel attracted to you. The stronger you become, the more you want to help the weak and the weary. You feel a needy soul somewhere close by, and your immediate reaction is to make them feel better, heal them, and give them comfort. And while you’re doing this, you’re ignoring your True Emotion Mirror(s), who are probably busy doing something similar in their own lives. This can pull you apart for years and even lifetimes, as you try and make everyone else feel normal before moving on – then creating unwanted soul connections to a bunch of nice, but random people.

Your True Emotion Mirror(s) may feel you’re avoiding them – finding excuses to stay away

As you are pulled into a hundred different directions by even people you are not even remotely willing to help, you may find that your TrEmors feel like they are being snubbed for some other reason. Maybe you’re not really ready. Maybe you don’t want this relationship, after all. Maybe your priorities are elsewhere.

In the meanwhile, you’ll be running out of emotional resources, too. You may be wasting love on people you don’t truly care about, confusing them, in the process, too.

Focus on who you truly love

You should sift your focus, if at all possible. I know from personal experience sometimes it can be even impossible to do when there are people in your face like mosquitoes during a hot summer night. It’s hard not to pay attention. However, try to focus on the people who truly matter to you. If you know who these people are, great, if you are second guessing about some connections, at least focus on those people instead of those who you already know are not your primary connections. Focus on what matters.

As I write this, I wonder if I am focussing on what and who matters, or am I being sucked into the same rabbit hole?

Give yourself a permission to be selfish

Most importantly, give yourself a permission to be selfish and focus on what matters to you. You have enough work to do among those who you care about, let the others be cared for by those who they truly matter to.

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