How by the Normal Person* logic, they can be your friend or True Emotion Mirror while you absolutely disagree.

The Normal Person* is a little bit naive in some ways. They think they can simply declare themselves as another person’s friend, girlfriend or boyfriend, True Emotion Mirror or Valentine, and simply argue the fact to be so, even if you absolutely disagreed, laughed at them, or tried to demonstrate to them how you couldn’t possibly be considered their girlfriend or boyfriend considering how you keep seeing other people and sleeping with them, or because you don’t love them or even like them, or hold any commitment to them.

The Normal Person* rarely see their own failures and flaws as negative or a problem. In fact, that is a way to love them, but even that doesn’t matter. Their focus is completely extroverted: “I see you being awesome; I like being awesome with you. I like you; therefore, I think my feelings also reflect your feelings.” They see no issue treating you mean or even cruelly as long as “deep down” they love you – or, indeed, vice versa. For as long as “deep down” they love you, or “deep down” you love them, in their mind, that seems to make it all OK.

What it means, to them, that they love you, is that they will never leave you. You can trust them to stay with you. Which, to a Savants* thinker, means their number one enemy can be trusted to “stay with them,” causing drama, misery, heartache, upset, and hurt, reliably, without fail. It’s like getting a promise from a toxic fumes emitter that they will never leave your home for as long as you live. Sweet.

When you retaliate, they also believe that “deep down” you love them despite your nasty words. Not only that, but you actually love them more than you can say: you have to HIDE the powerful feeling of love that you feel for them in nasty talk… Or they believe you are cruel because you don’t believe they would love you. Love, to them, is an action of taking care of you, not a feeling per se.

To the Normal Person*, loyalty is the most cherished of human traits (hence I call them the Normal Person*). Therefore, they will try their best to demonstrate to you that they have chosen you as “their human” keeping to the dog comparison, and you can’t chase them away. They see it as a TEST, not an actual rejection, that you try to discourage them – and this also applies to jobs and other positions they want. They believe that as long as they keep pushing, they’ll get their way, and entirely too often, this is true.

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