How did I find my soulmate through spiritual practice and then, another one

Finding your soulmate is somewhat of a tricky business, so I wanted to tell you how I managed to find my soulmate, and how you can do the same. This is because the society has grown so very cynical about everything that seems too good to be true, and we talk ourselves out of reaching for our happiness because we don’t want to seem gullible to other people. Often what this means is that we fear that to wish for a great outcome makes us seem stupid. So I wanted to tell you how I did it: how did I find my soulmate when I didn’t even know who they were, and how can one recognize one’s soulmate when they are doing their best to hide from you (and they do).

In 1998 I was very much the kind of girl who didn’t really believe in love as such. I guess I was more avoiding thinking about hoping to find true love, and the last place I thought I’d find my soulmate was through a boyfriend I had just met. Now, a lot of people think true love hits you only once, and it is true if you romanticize he idea that it can only happen once. As I am talking soulmates – REAL soulmates rather than the idea of someone who is compatible with you type of soulmate without a real spiritual connotation attached – I will have to go here: God will protect you from finding another soulmate if you think you will rather DIE longing for the first one than ever fall in love again… So, no. Soulmate relationships are far from easy, and they are, also, not singular. (Not even in the case of True Emotion Mirrors, mind you.) Summa summarum, I never thought I’d find my soulmate the way I did; through a completely movie scene -worthy event of locking eyes with someone I knew belonged with me. And, I certainly didn’t think I would find another soulmate while trying to figure out why the first one didn’t want me through communication with my soulmates.

I found the connection to my soulmates through the use of the pendulum. A pendulum, in case you don’t know, is a tool that can be used for a variety of things, but in this case, to communicate with the spiritual world – the unseen consciousness around you, whoever that may be. You can control who you are talking to up to an extent, but since spirit always responds to your TRUE AUTHENTIC WISH rather than the wish you THINK you are making, things can get very complicated over here. If your authentic wish is to cynically prove that true love doesn’t exist, you will get your proof. If you authentically want to prove that there is no such thing as a soul or reincarnation, you will be shown to that “truth” too. If you want to scorn me for being a fraud by telling you that there is no way to prove me wrong because I am saying you can prove me wrong if you want to, but your “proof” will be fabricated for your own purpose, you will be able to do that too. What I am telling you though is this: If you authentically want to be shown to the truth, nothing but the truth, no matter what it is, you will find  your way to the truth, including the truth about soulmates.

Practical information on how I managed to find my soulmate(s)

1. I found my first soulmate by an accident. Now, in reality I had found several potential soulmates by that stage, but I ignored them. The signs of a soulmate connection were not undeniable like in the case of “the first soulmate”, who was so clear to me that if someone had slapped me across the face out of the blue, the chances of me mistaking that for a breeze would be higher than me not realizing this guy was my soulmate.
2. By genuinely wishing to find love and being open to it. My first soulmate romance didn’t go real well. This was because I was completely unprepared for it, like most of us are in this day and age. We are told not to dream, and to ignore any signs of true love and explain them away by “you being naive”. So we turn away from our soulmate, we hesitate, we even anger at them for making us believe there’s something there. The first rule of soulmates is that you have to be ready for them, and the way I got to that point of being ready for a second soulmate was by accepting that I lost something irreplaceable with the first one, and, albeit the case, I didn’t want to die alone, so I decided to seek alternatives for myself. I decided to go publicly polyamorous, because I didn’t think I’d ever find another soulmate of his kind, and I felt marrying (again) out of desperate need to find a connection to someone was not a fair thing to do for the guy, knowing I’d always be in love with this other man. So, I decided to go for the second best option; if I couldn’t have him, I would have them all – but never to commit to them. I wanted to find a love connection without commitment, and that is exactly what I got – only, I didn’t put a limit to the amount of love I would allow myself to feel for the new guys, because I thought it would never strike me again that hard… But it did. Love at first sight happened again. And, I mucked it up by not being prepared for it. 😀
3. You can find your soulmate by getting prepared and seeking precognitive knowledge of them. This is what you all can do no matter what your situation is now. There are two levels to this process. To intellectually familiarize yourself with the phenomena of soulmates, and to accept it to be a reality. You can prepare yourself to look for the signs and you can prepare for the incredible amount of emotions that they are going to stir up in you. You can prepare yourself for the pit falls of doubt, fear and also, talking yourself into having met a real soulmate when in fact you have only met someone who is pretty interesting. (Happens a lot; the need to find love exceeds the actual feeling of love you feel for a person, so you convince yourself that this is it.) To be honest, there is a danger in knowing that soulmates exist but also there is a danger of not knowing it. But you have already become aware of these stories, so there is that age old wisdom: No knowledge is good, full knowledge is good, knowing only little will get you squashed. I am sure I am paraphrasing, but you get the idea: to be afraid of studying the whole thing because you are afraid  you might no longer believe in the whole thing and then you’d lose hope in life… Bad. You won’t know enough and you’ll be afraid to go after what you want if you can’t fully trust your knowledge. No or little information is also fine, because then you experience things from the point of view of an innocent child; you take it as it comes because you had no expectations to begin with. What you are experiencing is simply fun and feels good; what a wonder to experience, but, in today’s world, this will quite quickly burst at the seams because you will suddenly become aware of what is happening and you don’t know how to trust it. I can help you trust it. Please do make a great start by checking out The Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology so you know what is out there and you won’t get tangled up with something less than perfect.

Remember that truth won’t change by discovering it.

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