How do you get over a massive disappointment when you truly put your trust on something that didn’t pan out?

MOST people know how to prepare themselves for this. MOST people never put 100% of their faith in luck or fate, and it’s a smart thing not to, really. Still, there are people who believe that BELIEVING IT will make it happen, if you wish on a star hard enough, and fully trust it, your dreams will always come true – to the tee. THAT DEPENDS on your dream being possible. You cannot wish for the Sun to turn purple apart from your vision being altered by some weird medical condition, maybe, but the Universe will try to give you the closest thing possible just like that. There is no way you can mind-control someone into loving you, but you can invite people who already love you back into your life from a previous lifetime connection.

But what if you did learn it the hard way? You won’t be satisfied until Johnny Depp is yours? (I should probably use younger generation examples, but heck.) And you fully believed it’s possible, it’ll happen if you trust it, believe it, will it… Nah. It doesn’t work against another person’s free will.

What if you got romance scammed, and you fully believed *sigh* that you’re in an online relationship with none other than Johnny Depp? Then, it’s shown to you that you were talking with a Nigerian romance scammer… Revealing your most intimate thoughts to someone who absolutely isn’t Johnny Depp but who they actually were, you have no idea about. And now, you have to deal with the disappointment, and often also the embarrassment of having thought something like that to be true.

On the positive, I think the people who have had something like that happen to them have truly learned it. I don’t think the lesson needs to sink in too many times in a person’s reincarnational cycle. So maybe you’ve now learned something quite valuable for the future. Keep your eyes open the next time. A Nigerian romance scammer won’t turn into Johnny no matter how much you wish them into being Johnny himself.

Your psyche is in-built to deal with blows like this. It will take you a moment. Your mind will let it trickle in sized into manageable chunks. You’ll gain some distance to it and once it’s far enough in the past, you can look at yourself as the “old version” of yourself who was still a bit naive, and look at it from a perspective of someone older and wiser, not the person you were when it happened to you, but the person you will be at that moment when you’re gained enough distance in time to it.

It’ll go away.

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