If you are someone whose loved one is entangled in a hot and confusing-looking relationship with what they call a Twin Flame or True Emotion Mirror, you may feel like you have to interfere with it or “rescue” your loved one from that person. 

You may also feel like this person is threatening your relationship with your loved one, and I can tell you this much: They do love their True Emotion Mirror or their Twin Flame more than they love you – that is the nature of humanity, that is how it’s supposed to be. Children are supposed to find their true romantic lovers once they grow up, and parents should not view them as a competitor to their position because the parent/child relationship or platonic friends is entirely different to the bond between True Emotion Mirrors.

You won’t help by trying to break them up – and if you try, Hell’s wrath is on you – figuratively speaking.

True Emotion Mirrors are meant to be together. They are each other’s perfect counterparts. You may feel shocked upon seeing “new” traits in your loved one that you think the True Emotion Mirror made happen – like he or she is “changing” your loved one, but they are not. What is happening is that your loved one feels free to be who they were the whole time, without hiding themselves from anyone – protected by the love they feel from their True Emotion Mirror.

They will be just as filthy angry with you as a mother would be at a person who would take her child away from her. If you can understand that, do not interfere in their relationship.

I do not recommend getting in between True Emotion Mirrors. This is not a threat; it’s just that the love the True Emotion Mirrors share is so pure and complete that it is difficult for anyone who hasn’t experienced it to understand it. (Just because you’ve been married your whole life doesn’t mean you were married to yours, btw.) You don’t know what you involve yourself to if you imagine you should. You absolutely should not.

They seem so sexual. Or so hippy. Or both.

Maybe you object that the True Emotion Mirrors seem very sexual or that they mirror and amplify each other’s worst traits. This may be so, but they have the right (as adults) to not be to your liking and to be overly sexual or hippy spiritual; they are entitled to turning vegan over the love of each other or whatever else you consider being weird about them. They have finally found a kindred spirit, and they will enjoy it. Whatever your relationship with them, you should not interfere in it.

If you feel like something was stolen from you, you need to work on that, and you shouldn’t risk your relationship with either one of them by trying to break up true lovers.

If you fear for your loved one’s life.

If you suspect that instead of a Twin Flame / True Emotion Mirror, this person is someone with a narcissistic personality disorder (is abusive but charming), and your loved one cannot see it, DO NOT push it to the point where your loved one wouldn’t turn to you for help even if their life was in danger. Know to back off and tell your loved one that your door is open, and if she or he ever needs your help, you’ll come running, day or night.

If you wind up being right, save them the lecture, it happens to the best of us. Our wish to find true love sometimes clouds our judgment. When you SHOULD intervene, however, is when you notice that your loved one is PUSHING THEMSELVES into the life of someone who DOES NOT WANT THEM THERE, telling themselves that this is true love. This is a certain way for them to wind up in an “abusive relationship” when their supposed true love is trying to fight (usually) his way out of it. Talk to the other party and ask if they truly feel this is “a relationship” and what they’d like you to do about it.

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