How do you know a person is NOT PLAYING hard to get with an intent to surprise you with a big reveal “April fools, of course I love you!”?

Do you think your partner or friend is playing hard ball in the game of ‘dare’ with a true lover/friend? Whatever they say can be in the form of a joke or a dare and a razz between best friends, but you have to listen to the giggle sound. NOBODY, and I mean NOBODY without a diagnosed Asperger’s syndrome will tell you things they don’t mean without the revealing giggle-sound that tell you they’re not being serious. If they have Asperger’s or high-functioning autism, they’re even less likely to be joking about anything of this nature.

Soulbond doesn’t make it true love.

Even if you could accurately recall a hundred lifetimes that you’ve been friends or lovers, it doesn’t guarantee that friendship is based on true love and connection. What it proves is that there is something that brings you together, and that something can be a misunderstanding or aligning needs that have nothing to do with love and companionship from both sides. These connections are called karmic soulmates or Antagonist Spirit Mirrors as I call them.

If they’re quiet and don’t want to engage…

Have you been fighting for a time? “Playing” as you think? Do you think they got too rough with you? There’s a good chance they HAD TO get rough to make you understand that your playing wasn’t a game to them or that YOU crossed that line of playing too rough a long time ago with them. Especially if you never agreed out loud that you enjoy your to-and-fro, maybe you’re the only one who did.

Divorce as a form of a prank?!

There are very few people who would divorce you for a prank or start a law suit against you as a prank. It’s not that they don’t exist, it’s just that those people are very, very few, far, and between and would be called sociopaths who have no regard to public court’s time and dragging innocent bystanders into your lover’s guarrels.

There is NOBODY SANE IN THIS WORLD who is sure they’re loved.

A certainty that you are loved without any question is some kind of a personality disorder. Normal people do not believe without a doubt or a question that they are absolutely loved and cherished. No matter how good-looking they are. No matter how many followers they’ve got on Instagram. There is not a number of fans that make them immune to the understanding that there might be a special person or two who DO NOT think the Sun shines out of their ass.

Don’t count on a person’s unvavarable self-confidence in their faith that EVERYONE loves them. Only a fool thinks they’re loved by everybody they know.

This is not a movie. A happy ending isn’t a guarantee.

Everybody gets what they want 100% of the time… is not a guarantee you get a happy ending. What you get is REALITY. I guarantee everyone, including you, wants REALITY more than anything else. Your reality is limited by OTHER PEOPLE. The free will of other people. The true feelings of other people. And sometimes you hit that wall like a crash test dummy in a junky car.

Also, you don’t know which scene of the movie you’re living if this was a movie. You also don’t know if it’s a drama, a thriller, or a romantic drama.

Is there another level of anger they could possibly express?

It is unlikely that anyone would play their final level of anger -card as a joke in any situation. It would be VERY, VERY STUPID. When there’s no level of anger besides murder that someone can express their genuine wish to break up with you, then they’ve trapped themselves in the obscurity of their own self-expression.

Can you imagine them being any angrier with you besides beating you to a pulp or grabbing a knife and stabbing you with it? No? Then, they probably are not playing anymore.

“Deep down, they love me” is a very, very dangerous thing to believe.

Is there a chance YOU are avoiding reality, not them?

How about this… Are you possibly making yourself believe that they are avoiding the truth because they’re clinging on false ego or false vos? Do you think they’re delusional or detached from their own emotions?

Have a look in the mirror. Is there a chance you don’t want to face the fact they don’t love you and maybe never did the way you hoped and believed? Is it possible YOU are avoiding reality here, not them? If you can’t even face the possibility that may be the case, I’m saying the likelihood is much higher YOU are the one clinging to a false reality, rather than them.

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