How does the “runner” feel about the “chaser”

There are several different soulmate types that will “run and chase” each other, and True Emotion Mirror is not really one of them. In True Emotion Mirror relationships, there’s truly just two chasers or two avoidants, rather than the runner and chaser -pairing. In True Emotion Mirrors, the wires are crossed, they don’t speak about the same things, they can’t express their feelings to each other in a way that the other would understand. They feel equally rejected or, rather “dodged”, when in fact, the other is trying to drop hints to the effect of “come hither” or “look, I’m about to drop the question.”

A True Emotion Mirror may also take a conscious step back without telling the other: “Give me 6 months, I’ll sort out my affairs, and then, we’re free to talk romance.” In this 6 months time, the other may have completely lost their self-confidence about the other person and be seemingly on the run. However, this post is about something less written about, the real rejection from an Antagonist Mirror Spirit (karmic soulmate).

How does the runner feel?

Although it is difficult to give an all-covering response to how does any given runner feels when they decide to run, I’ll go through a few common feelings of a non-True Emotion Mirror runner.

Frustration: Give up already, you’re wasting your time

One of the most common and prominent feelings I pick up on from the runner is the frustration of being forced to dodge another person’s romantic notions. They are NOT INTERESTED in you in the romantic sense, and they are frustrated that they need to keep on rejecting you on that level. Not to be confused with True Emotion Mirror frustration that they can’t make the message sink in, or how you seem to be “playing games” with them when you’re not.

The Antagonist Mirror Spirit’s frustration comes from the annoyance that you’re not really chasing someone of your own level, and that they feel like you should be well aware of the fact you’re not each other’s equal and that you don’t truly stand a chance with them.

Exhaustion: You’re draining me

Sometimes the chaser is called an energy vampire because they will tap onto their chosen one with all the romantic hopes they have, while the other does not feel excited about this connection at all. They seem they are wasting a lot of energy keeping you away, and they hope you would just give up your chase already. Being tapped out of energy, sometimes for years on end is not a good feeling.

Blocked from advancing

They may also feel like their future is not opening up the way they wish it was, as the chaser’s energy is blocking new life paths that may take him or her further away from the chaser. This may include job opportunities as well as new romantic partners from entering their life. Obviously, this is superbly annoying to the chased person, as they cannot move forward or backward in life, all thanks to someone who can’t let go of them, quite without their own ability to help the matter.

Cornered

The runner may feel like their freedom of choice has been taken away from them, when someone is perhaps convinced they are the other person’s Twin Flame, and as such their private property, as the chaser often feels like. The runner feels short-changed and trapped, and may not know which way to turn or where to go to get away far enough.

Stalked

It is not uncommon for the Chaser to actually stalk the Runner, even setting up camp outside their house. This may also be limited to stuff they’re posting online on social networks, but also follow them around in real life.

Herded

Lacking a better expression, the Runner may also feel like the Chaser is blocking other people away from them, like they were unwanted predators. This makes the Runner feel like what they want is beyond their reach as the Chaser will be marking territory around them. This may happen by the Chaser presenting themselves as the girl- or boyfriend of the Runner in social media, without truly saying as much but just giving the vibe to the other people interested in the Chased, that they have no business on the Chaser’s territory.

The Chaser may feel their freedom of choice has been interfered with and that they are fully at the mercy of the Chaser.

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