I approach the topic of True Emotion Mirrors and the motivations of the True Emotion Mirror runner from the perspective that we are human, and psychology has a lot more to do with our running and chasing behavior than any spiritual theory explains. This is good, because understanding your part of the reasons why your True Emotion Mirror ran away from you gives you power to change this situation – and his or her direction. It maybe taunting to consider the possibility that you might have caused this yourself, but what is your True Emotion Mirror worth to you in the end? Just about everything, I would imagine – including an honest, fearless look in the mirror.

You might be the actual True Emotion Mirror Runner

This is not a competition about who ran away from whom first, but it is important to know that most of the time, the true runner is actually the female, but the guy is who senses the running energy with such clarity, that he reacts to it before the female does. This has to do with our social conditioning; women are brainwashed to be afraid of men and their motivations, and suspicious of every kind word that comes out of their mouths. “Men would say anything to get laid” sounds very familiar to any woman out there – and we are scared to death of being the fool that believed pretty lies of a player. When a guy seems too good to be true, the girl usually hits on the breaks (she just became the True Emotion Mirror runner, but she hasn’t said anything yet) and insists he slows down and tells him, somehow, that she doesn’t trust him.

Now, to understand what happens between two such highly bonded soulmates, you have to understand that men are incredibly romantic, FAR FAR more romantic than we give them credit for. Women, compared to men are very pragmatic and calculating – they’ve been trained to be that for self-protection, but men don’t need to be that protective of themselves – their reputation and their hearts, all they’ve been told about women their whole life is that women are delicate flowers who are simply waiting for a nice guy to come about and treat them nice. “Easily done!” they figure “I’m a nice guy and all girls simply want a nice guy!” (Most guys are nice, so it is not uncommon for them to think that way about themselves.)

True Emotion Mirror Runner is a victim of bad relationship advice

Now, the two people come together. Both with their preset ideas in place: “I am looking for a nice guy who will not instantly try and get laid and who will treat me with respect and love me for my personality.” He thinks: “I am looking for a nice girl who needs a nice guy and I can offer her that, and she will love me unconditionally and she will never hold back from me because I will treat her with love and respect.”

For a guy, the ultimate of romance for most guys is to make love to his girl without reservations, and for her to trust him without question, because she falls in love with him and senses, from the first moment, that he is not like the other guys and that she can trust him and his love. The cold reality slaps him in the face in no time: She backs off and tells him she doesn’t sleep with guys on the first date.

“She doesn’t sleep with guys on the first date.”

He repeats in his head. Oh OK. So you have RULE for this kind of thing?! This happens to you SO OFTEN, that you need a playbook for this? Quite ironically, a girl who does sleep with a guy on the first date seems far less slutty to a guy than a girl who needs rules for first date sex. (I told you they have an unrealistic idea of girls!)

He fell in love for the first time, probably. To pull out the “Oh I will only sleep with you once you have jumped through enough hoops to prove to me you’re worthy” card is a bad play move at this stage unless you ACTUALLY feel scared of sleeping with him. Attempting to preserve your reputation at this stage is not a good move. If your reputation is more important to you than this guy, he feels utterly rejected, and gutted, and, perhaps, for a reason.

She run, mentally, but he became known as the True Emotion Mirror Runner because he got so disappointed about how often this happens to the girl, that he simply decided not to put his heart on the line for this girl... and ran. He too has some level of self-preservation left – especially as women rarely even attempt to take a man’s feelings under consideration; they simply proudly proclaim that these boots are made for walking…. and one of these days these boots are gonna walk all over you… Women are proud to be heartless, and men are ashamed of being soft-hearted. A bad combination in the True Emotion Mirror world.

These relationships are always complicated

I blog about True Emotion Mirror relationships all the time, but because I have found so many points that I disagree with in the True Emotion Mirror theories after studying them in depth for a long time through a spiritual, psychological, and intuitive lens, I decided to call them by a different term to keep my theories separate from the True Emotion Mirrors; True Emotion Mirrors . My soulmate typology also includes several other soulmate types that are often confused as True Emotion Mirrors.

This particular scenario might not have happened to you, there are plenty of other scenarios that may sound more familiar to you, so I invite you to take a look at my site and see for yourself… And I hope to be of assistance to you. (There’s also the option to ask me to write about a specific topic if you can’t find what you are looking for – I am absolutely SWAMPED with ideas, but I would love to hear from you all, because I am shooting  in the dark as to what you are actually looking for, so please shoot me a topic suggestion any time you like and I’ll get to it as soon as possible – usually within the week – I always push them to the top of my to-do list.)

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