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How important are “signs” when it comes to your True Emotion Mirror?

From the get-go, I’ll tell you the bottom line: Whatever “signs” are telling you about your True Emotion Mirror, your true, authentic feelings are what matter. If you love them, you love them, if you don’t, you don’t, and that’s all there is to it.

I’m not particularly eager to make a huge deal about signs anymore because they can be deceiving. They may be amazing and helpful, but you should not let them talk you into something you don’t want.

What signs am I talking about?

You may have seen signs like repeated sequences of the number 1 or some other sign, perhaps the birthday of a person that seems to be kind of “pushed in your face,” so to speak. You may feel telepathic with someone. There might be multiple eerie coincidences with a person, such as their parent was born the same day as you or their parent, you may be born one day apart, your names may match similarly to Kath Day and Kel Night, and similar. These are things that make you feel “wow, how can this be?!” and “What does it all mean?!”

However, these signs may be “manufactured” by your soulmates, who take the signs to be more meaningful than the feelings associated with a True Emotion Mirror. They may want to sway you back toward what they want you to marry than what you want for yourself by bringing people who match these signs into your life. I know it sounds paranoid, but it has happened to me multiple times.

Signs, although amazing, shouldn’t replace the true love you feel for your True Emotion Mirror, the most obvious of which don’t need signs like this at all to make you notice something is very different about them.

When does “the Universe” use signs like this?

In my case, I noticed that the Universe used the signs to point out a potential True Emotion Mirror that I would have otherwise looked past had there not been all the signs. The same man also has strong True Emotion Mirrors signs to my former best friend, who I truly don’t consider even a Basal Principle Mirror*, let alone a True Emotion Mirror. It was as if he was the potential hinge for a polygynous relationship between him, her, and me, but as a polyandrist, I would never go for that deal. (She is an Antagonist Personality Mirror*, but we share a LONG history that resembles a True Emotion Mirror relationship in many ways without being one. (How do I know? I kind of secretly detest her and always have done.)

This man is one of the rare individuals we’d both find crazy attractive. It makes sense the Universe would have picked him out for US BOTH as an option for me, first and foremost, to decide between polygyny, polygynandry, or polygynandry, considering his best friend is like a carbon copy of myself in a male form. This would have made us a natural quartet IF I was in any way inclined to accept another female into an intimate bond with me… Something my female soulmates willfully ignore.

I absolutely, wholeheartedly believe we all have free will, and obvious as some solutions may seem, if it doesn’t work for you, it doesn’t. If you don’t want it, you don’t. And, if you need to make that True Emotion Mirror choose between yourself and the other, make them. They may also choose neither if you’re in a similar bind to me, and that’s THEIR right to do.

You cannot be forced into doing anything.

There are several ways you are protected from being forced into doing things you don’t want to do. There are also many ways your path can be limited toward something another group of strong-willed souls wants of you. Still, you don’t have to go along with it; you can ALWAYS refuse. It’s truly a matter of what you want versus what someone else wants of you and for you.

You have free will, and you have the right to use that free will. Others are entitled to their opinion about your choices, but you have the right to tell them to shove that opinion right up their self-righteous buttholes, if you know what I mean.

Unfortunately, the stronger you feel about something, the more the Young Soul* feel the need to force it upon you. They feel that resistance is their best bet that they’re about to achieve something great, so they’ll usually be tempted by resistance like flies are tempted by poop. Still, resist you must, otherwise, they’ll just have their way, and you will be the one who takes your opinion up your butthole.

Even if the other person recognizes the signs, doesn’t mean they’ll choose to follow them.

I’ve learned to explain the obvious a bit to those who seem to see everything from the perspective of THEIR RIGHTS and YOUR OBLIGATIONS: Even if another person accepts there are signs, clear True Emotion Mirror signs, doesn’t mean they need to over-run their own true feelings about you or the people you wish they loved. Nobody lives for your entertainment alone, even if this is just a massive entertainment system. They are free to choose what will make THEM happy – they don’t exist for your happiness and survival needs.

Therefore, no matter how much your soul has managed to woo them with signs, doesn’t mean they will be in any way more inclined to fall in love with you.

Doesn’t this contradict the first rule of the Universe: “everyone gets exactly what they’ll want in life?”

Although I am convinced that the Universe works under the first, most grounding rule of “everyone will always get exactly what they want 100% of the time,” it doesn’t mean they get what they want with WHO they wish to. You will get the romance you’re looking for, the emotions that you want to feel, but not necessarily with the person or people you have your hopes locked on at this moment. This is because THEY have free will, too, and they are not in any way obligated to make YOUR dreams come true. They seek their happiness, and you may not be a part of it.

However, there will be someone ELSE that you WILL get that wish through, and I guarantee you it’ll be better than forcing someone reluctant into pretending they feel what you wished they felt for you.

I feel saddened I have to even write this post.

I am not happy that I have discovered that signs can be manipulated through spirit. I am not happy about it in the slightest, it’s just that they can.

Just like most people, I loved to find the signs guiding me toward my True Emotion Mirror, but then, I noticed they are being used to guide me toward my Soul Enemies* instead. They noticed how powerfully the signs spoke to me, so they started using them to their own advantage. Granted, they thought the reason I was so excited about the signs was that I noticed there are people who love me and they thought they should only put up their hand and say they love me, too, and that should have the same impact as my True Emotion Mirrors had, but they are not my True Emotion Mirrors, even if their emotions for me are true if you know what I mean.

Therefore, the ONLY SIGN that TRULY MATTERS as far as True Emotion Mirrors go is whether you both love each other more than anyone else in the world… Or in terms of polygamous bonds; do you love each other not an ounce less than the people you love the most in this world?

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