How relying on soul-conversation (telepathy) to fix a relationship can go wrong

Once you reach a level of awareness, like many of you have, you can have a continuous “telepathic” conversation with any soul in the Universe – but most of us choose to do this with a True Emotion Mirror only, which is what I recommend, too, although I haven’t personally adhered to it, as you can gather of the following. For the last 2 years, I have been trying to solve my issues with some of my family members, who I am quite distant to through soul-talk. Today, I finally found an error in communication, typical to these conversations, but one that I completely missed and one that a lot of you might have an issue with, too.

As you probably know, telepathy or soul-talk, I don’t know what you should call it really when it happens on the soul level and doesn’t go all the way down to the brain level of the other party, works non-literally. (In fact, there are more than one way of doing this, I’ve also heard of someone with whom this works strictly literally, so that when he asked his L-rods to point at a Rock during a demonstration, they kept pointing in a wrong direction. He tried again, and again and the rods kept pointing the same way. A guy in the audience started smiling and he said: “Um… My last name is Rock.” :D) Personally, my way of communicating is very messy, because I work out issues with both English speakers and Finnish speakers, and as we are poets and writers, my True Emotion Mirrors and I love words and phrases, so in addition to our communication conceptually is non-literal, the phrases and idioms of our languages get translated literally, because they form such amusing connections. 😀 You work that out! But generally speaking, this communication happens non-literally, meaning that I think of a rock and you may hear “stone” “pebble” or the equivalent in your language. This speeds up the communication, too, because you can send an entire concept in one thought, without having to word it out like a spiritual zip-file. ;D However, it does have it’s drawbacks.

What means one thing to me, doesn’t necessarily mean the same thing to you. In my case, I have been trying to convince my family members to let go of me, let me go and live my life the way I want to live it. I told them over and over, that I don’t want anything from them, that I didn’t have any other demands on them other than giving me my freedom. This to me, was summed up in an ideal phrase that I kept repeating: “You have to let go of me” (in order to show me you love me and so that I can trust you.) What they heard was THEIR ideal of how to prove love: “You have to hold on and prove me you love me and can take a beating!” They thought I was testing them so that I know they truly love me. All I wanted was for them to go live their lives without worrying about what I was doing, and essentially, leave me alone. They did hear me scream at them at times to fuck off, but they thought my SOUL had told them to hold on for dear life, because that is how THEY prove their love, and that my normal physical level understanding hadn’t figured it out yet that they need to stay here and prove their love for me no matter how much I kick and bite. I wanted respect (distance), they wanted no boundaries (the difference between masculine love; respect and feminine love; unity).

It was only when I realised that I cannot expect them to let go of me, but that I have to learn to live my life according to my rules no matter what they do, and that, essentially, if I wanted people to find it easy to let go of me, I would have to become deathly boring and that is the last thing I want to be. So I spat at them: “Fine. Hang onto me if you want, you can sit there and adore me all you want, I can’t help it if I’m so fucking interesting you can’t take your eyes off me for one second.” As soon as I said that, the result was as is to be expected: “What?! You want us to be your fans?!” And I said I didn’t care what they did, but I was not going to fight it anymore, if they get banged up on my way to where I want to be, that’s their business and they can deal with the wounds if I have to run them over before they get out of my way – I gave them a fair warning.

Naturally, none of my relatives are consciously aware of this conversation – thank the lord – and hopefully by the time they read this, it’ll be quite clear what this was about. (Plus they don’t read my blog nor English so I’m fairly safe. ;)) That is another thing you need to be aware of; whomever you are talking to may be consciously aware of 10% of what you’re saying, or perhaps none at all, but it’s fairly unlikely that they’d hear, understand and react to everything you tried to tell you; so this is rarely, if ever, a substitute for face-to-face conversation. However, they MAY be simultaneously have ANOTHER conversation with you on a soul level that you aren’t aware off, but we are always limited to our sense of reality in a way that if I “know” that my True Emotion Mirror works at say, K-Mart (they don’t btw if they did I’d walk across and hugged them to death), but they’d changed jobs without me knowing, so they would still, in my mind work at K-Mart, and anything contradicting that would be mixed up in the conversation, especially if it was really important to me that they work at K-Mart.

You can also hear stuff like “I love you” interchangeably with “I hate you” because it is oddly similar expression sometimes, and this is based on whether you believe they love you or not. What you cannot fake is feeling though, so if they come near you and you feel their love, there is no mistaking of it. You’ll feel hate, rejection and anger just as easily as you’d feel love, adoration or desire. Words can lead you wherever, but emotion will tell you exactly where you’re at.

But still… If you can, do talk to them face o face, and also, quit that Facebook stalking before I whip you for that one. 😉

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