How selfless and forgiving is the love of a True Emotion Mirror exactly?

and Precious Soulmates, to each other, are said to be selfless in their love of the other. However, there is a point where the True Emotion Mirror selflessness turns to possessiveness – and quite healthily so. That point is the point when both of you trust that you are welcome to grab a hold and stick to it and that both of you welcome and need this FOREVER -connection. With Precious Soulmates, this is where it fails, you both understand that you are not what makes you both a hundred percent happy, therefore, to enable the search for the missing percent, you let go of each other, and wish each other happy travels and good luck on your way.

Precious Soulmates part ways without parting ways, they remain together in the spirit in a way that they are not together. They provide a loving enabling field of energy for each other, the true wish that everything will be amazing for you, even though I can’t and won’t be there to see it.

For every soulmate type that the motivation isn’t “I want YOU to be happy, regardless of my own happiness”, but more along the lines “I need you to make me happy even if that makes you unhappy” or “I need you to make me happy, and I need you to change into a person who feels happy making me happy” it is something lower in value than a True Emotion Mirror or a Precious Soulmate. are authentically people who are happy making the other one happy. Something selfish, self-serving.

The point of tentacles

There is a point to every close relationship, where the tentacles come out and you try and bond permanently with another person. When those tentacles are not welcome, this is where the relationship ends, when the other freaks out and runs. “Not for me, thank you very much.” If the tentacles are welcome, granted, a few things may happen.

There are people who are in such a deep need of bonding, that they react to this in horrible ways – exactly the opposite of what they want to do. Instead of allowing you to wrap your tentacles around them, they “start screaming” as if you were hurting them. Their behavior can appear very similar to those who authentically reject you at this point. This adds to their pain, as they cannot truly accept closeness, simply because their need for it is so strong and they fear it’s not real, that they are being taken for fools.

The other option is that the tentacles are met, and wrapped on gently, gradually – and often with some final leap of faith: “Yes, you ARE mine.” And rest assured, everyone wants this, but the question remains; with whom. Nobody will accept this from anyone at all.

Sealth tentacles

This is somewhat of a sidenote here. Just came to think of it, feel free to skip – sometimes these tentacles are somewhat invisible. Imagine a child who so gently and quietly grabs the hold of a stranger’s dress at a store, that she walks home without realizing someone else’s child is clinging to her dress. Some people are like this. They “bond” without really bonding. They like to imagine themselves bonded with someone who barely even notices their existence. They are more than likely to gradually become bolder, and at this stage removing them can be very stressful to that person.

True Emotion Mirror innocense

There’s a certain innocence required for the True Emotion Mirror and the Precious Soulmate connections to form. This doesn’t mean naivety, however. It means world wisdom that hasn’t destroyed that person’s innocence… At least not completely. It means an ability to view things with an open mind, without judgment, fear, or feeling dirty.

It also doesn’t mean you cannot be analytical, logical, smart, or critical, far from it, but it means you must have a certain innocence, sensitivity to new things. The ability to see the world without feeling jaded about it. I do have to say, that there are very few completely innocent people in this world, and many will turn away from their True Emotion Mirror due to cynicism, ego, fear of loss of face, which are the enemies of this connection. You have to trust the world, yourself, the other person… To be fearless. To have faith, like an innocent child, without being naive or stupid like that child.

This is what enables to be open with each other, selfless, and fearless at the same time.

If you lost your innocence, it doesn’t mean you can’t get it back. Not at all. This is part of the purpose of this blog – to reassure your logical cynical mind, that your innocent childlike trust in true love isn’t naivety or stupidity.

Forgiving everything

The difference between and every other connection is that will forgive each other ANYTHING. This doesn’t mean they’d be particularly happy or proud that their TrEmoR would have broken the laws in horrible ways, but it means that those deeds don’t end the love. They UNDERSTAND why those crimes were committed, why they attacked each other, or whatever horrible thing happened between them.

Let’s take Ted Bundy, the Unabomber, who raped and killed a great number of women before finally caught and executed. I am willing to put my money on a guess that the women he killed, many of them, if not all, were his own . And those women will forgive him, as soon as he’ll forgive himself, at least.

I know I’ve been tortured to death by at least one of my in a past life, and I find it easiest thing in the world to forgive him, even with a grin: “Oh you mischievous…”

But it is one thing to forgive something they’ve done to you, and another to forgive what they’ve done to other people. Still, even that is your mutual shame: “WE apologize for what HE/SHE did.” It is not his or her deed, it’s OUR sin.

With every other type of soulmate (a word that means very little more than “someone you’ve known for a long time”), there’s a limit to how far they can go. They can give you a bit of trouble, and you show them the door telling them they’re too much trouble for what they’re worth.

Not forgiving a True Emotion Mirror would be like shooting oneself in the foot. You’re going to hurt yourself more than anyone else. With other people, not so.

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