How should the Idealists* liberate themselves from the Survivalist*tyranny?

When a Idealists* is not in love with a person, they will HAVE TO LEARN to say no to any social interaction, relationships, AND SEX when they don’t want it. The Idealists* need to learn to disappoint the dog-type’s hope for a relationship. An Idealist* needs to learn to tolerate the discomfort of making the Survivalist*tolerate a disappointment of a closed door, (you can go anywhere but here) and the fact they are not always loved and wanted or even welcome into every event and any group possible.

the Idealists* will have to stop having sexual relationships and children with people they are not fully in love with. This is the cruelty the Idealists* need to become comfortable inflicting on others. The Idealists* need to learn to draw a CLEAR boundary to what they will and won’t do for a dog-type, EVEN IF the Survivalist*does not understand or agree with the Idealists*’ reasoning.

the Idealists* need to learn to SAY NO to relationships they do not want – and to the highest degree to not hire the Survivalist* into companies they own – especially if that person in question isn’t PERFECT for the job.

There are times when a Idealists* WILL fall in love with a dog-type, and in those situations, my advice is for you to check that card until you know what you want. Then, you’ll just have to be a lot sterner when you wish this relationship to end IF YOU DO. The fact is, however, that high love between the Survivalist*and the Idealists* rarely works out smoothly from the start anyway, because their bonding strategies are entirely different – the Idealists* flirtation is the Survivalist*rejection – but if you are a relationship master, do try it if your sanity needs it.

Make the Survivalist* adjust to a situation where they cannot enjoy your continued company and cannot really call you a friend. It may sound cruel, but that will literally end the bullshit that we have learned to accept as “the way things are”, and “how it’s always done”. The Survivalist* do not belong in the position of power, but they seek nothing as willingly as power. They also do not rule with compassion, care, and intelligence, as to them, all care and compassion mean force and strict rules. “They’ll calm down once they know their place” is the Survivalist*thinking that the Idealists* must now adopt for everyone’s good.

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