How should True Emotion Mirrors (etc) examine the validity of their spiritual experiences?

Whenever a person starts hearing voices, if there’s a shred of sanity left in that person, they will question their own sanity. We know people can completely lose it, run around convinced they are the future bride of prince such and such and that aliens will attack any moment now. We also know that sometimes, knowing will actually be actualized. Princess Diana knew who she was going to marry, when she was just a child, through intuition, not through status. The same story has repeated in many forms in history, sometimes it is other people who predict a match, sometimes the people themselves, and sometimes we hear voices that turn out to be accurate.

It usually takes us some time to learn to trust a voice inside our heads… And despite my voices argue that we shouldn’t doubt them, I say it’s like a taking the advice of a banker to “just trust him with all the details…” Trust must be earned, just like love, and respect.

Feelings are the only truly real thing in the spirit

I feel the ONLY THING you cannot fake is a feeling. The only thing I ever trust in the spiritual is a feeling. However, where that feeling comes from is a complicated thing. We do, up to a point, manipulate each other’s feelings, but only momentarily, I have discovered. It feels as though another person can give you a suggestion in the emotional level: “This is how I want you to feel (about me).” You can then assess whether you like the feeling, and if you do, you can hold onto that feeling, otherwise, you’ll reject the feeling: “No, I don’t like the way it feels” or “I like the feeling, but I don’t like to associate it with you.”

Facts get lost all the time

I don’t trust factual information that I receive from the spirit world AT ALL. I’ve heard completely contradicting “facts” about one and the same situation. If I try to evaluate a crime, for instance, I can see and feel several different scenarios, and it may or may not be accurate. Did Johnny Depp beat up Amber Heard or not? I can only say he probably wanted to but did he actually do it or not, or how bad it was, that’s a much bigger question that I’ve seen various different possible answers and the only thing that is consistent, is how he FEELS, and how SHE feels.

I’ve seen TONS of different situations, different scenarios, and the only thing that matches the court documents is THE FEELING. I believe what the documents said COULD HAVE happened in one of my scenarios, but didn’t. (I can also tell you a whole lot more about them than what was in the documents, including that Heard misinterpreted a gesture of worry and apology as “a further attack” due to her own fear and inexperience of men, not particularly her fear of Johnny himself but men in general. Her being a bisexual, or, rather a lesbian explains why she interprets men so poorly and also manages to miss the cues as to when she has overstepped a mark by about a mile.)

So, factually, I couldn’t tell you what happened. He could have just as well thrown a phone in her general direction, where it broke against a wall rather than hit her in the face, I can tell you how and why she could have faked the bruise that she wanted people to see, but I can also give you the situation where Johnny COULD HAVE completely lost it with her and why. Facts are a secondary thing. The emotional fact is, she has the capacity of irritating him like nobody else, and that everyone, pushed to a certain point, is capable of violence. That’s all I know.

Yes, I get onto the Johnny-Amber soapbox even still, but I think it clarifies the point:

Soulmates meet in the “I want to” space

True Emotion Mirror meeting in spirit is about the meeting of minds and spirits, emotions, NOT a factual meeting. They CANNOT promise you anything specific, timelines, anything factual, but what they can tell you is “I want to, as soon as possible, as soon as the obstacles clear” and you can tap into the feeling to see whether they are telling the truth or not.

The physical aspect of your True Emotion Mirror is wrapped up in their own world. What I can tell you from my True Emotion Mirrors and myself, is that we all had to clear the way for us all to meet in the physical world. Some good hard looks on who we’ve trusted for the wrong reasons, some financial purging, and I think you might conclude who I’m thinking, mainly, but also some major life experiences that needed to happen before we’ll meet. Some relationships had to be cleared out, some healing had to happen – as none of us wants any external package into the relationship, that is going to be complicated on its own merit.

We WANT TO make this happen. We are taking steps toward it.

Clear, steady steps.

The spiritual is tapping into the same source of “all available information”

In the spirit, we are making our plans together. We are preparing for problems that we’ll face in the physical that have the potential of driving us all apart again. We see it coming, so we can prevent the problems.

The more problems we solve, the more we appreciate the necessity of this time in preparation, even though it is taking TOO long, and we’re all impatient. But rather than focussing on the impatience, I’m focusing on the solution and trying to solve things as fast as I can – and me writing this blog is doing exactly that. Writing helps me think. Writing to someone else, even if an imaginary reader, makes it easier to process it all. A bit over 31 standard self-help books worth of material now. 😀

The spiritual helps you get to know each other better.

This time in separation and telepathy gives you an opportunity to really get to know each other. To TRUST that you are exactly what you need and want out of each other, the chance to be perfectly honest and who you are, and trust that no matter what you want, it’s exactly the thing for your True Emotion Mirror, too.

And still, after 7 years of talking to each other, we still find new things, ways the society has trained us to think that we actually don’t like. Respect and care are shown in a way that obstructs and suffocates our wishes, rather than brings them forth. Although at times, we’re encouraging each other to go full on: “this is what I want, too,” other times, we’re telling each other to wait: “hold it, because it’s too hot and it’s going to be too long.”

How do we know it’s for real

This is the question, isn’t it. I don’t know how to answer it and I’ve tried so many times already. I’ve given you the logical probabilities that support it. I’ve explained how it feels, how everything fits into place both emotionally and logically, how the spiritual discussions manifest in the reality, how the world seems to respond to what we are planning (as it’s going to be big…) but none of that is really the answer. It’s simply probabilities. All of this is too perfectly logical not to be true. HOWEVER, it’s still NOT the answer.

Oddly, one of the answers is the crazy sexual heat I feel that I know cannot be faked… I know we can all fantasize about whomever we want and give them a completely foreign personality as we do it, but… This is different. We meet in spirit, there’s no force associated with it, they’re free to be exactly what they are and they are what I wish them to be… I’ve written enough bad fiction to know how hard it is to force a character into acting against their will, and how easy it is to make a character tell a fantastic story if you just let them do what they do. (I do believe writing fiction is a form of channeling as is acting…) But even that doesn’t prove much, as we can also make ourselves believe that hey, I feel like I didn’t force it for 2 seconds and he still stayed..! This must be love…

I know the non-true mirrors with us are working HARD to keep it together. They’re working overtime with not losing their position here. We are coasting along compared to them bastards, and they’re fighting back every time we try to convince them they’re not our True Emotion Mirrors nor Precious Soulmates* or anything else remarkable. which makes them beg the answer to the question, HOW DO YOU KNOW THAT?! How I know? I don’t love them, that’s how. I wish they weren’t here. WE feel like they’re intruding our company, that’s how we know. I don’t know how they don’t know how that’s a perfect answer.

It’s easy to tell whether you, yourself DON’T feel something, or you feel something, but it’s hard to tell what another person is genuinely feeling, and how much of this is your delusion, hallucination, your inner wishes playing up with you, or simply seeing what you want to see – as you can also see others doing the same with you. THEY are making you up to be something you’re not, they are pestering you for love that you don’t feel for them and insisting you are this character you truly are not. So how should THEY know they are in denial about it?

One thing I keep telling them is that LOOOOK, these guys are here with me and you can’t see them arguing! Why can’t you see that we are in agreement here, but you’re arguing? You are insisting, pestering, being difficult? How come can’t you see the difference?

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