How the Normal Person* and the Savants* resemble each other
the Savants* have a strong sense of who they are as an individual. If their idea of who they are, who they love to be, falls into the ideal of some other group, such as “men” or “women”, they may seem like highly submissive the Normal Person*. As in, a Savants* man who wants nothing more than to raise a family may seem like a stereotypical the Normal Person*, same as a Savants* man who has honed his seduction skills to align with the Normal Person* woman instead of a Savants* woman. Then again, a Savants* woman may be highly sexual DESPITE the wishes of the society at large, but very much in alignment with sex-loving men. A Normal Person* woman, in all times before now, should act relatively prudishly, apart from the Normal Person* women who see their worth to have diminished to the status of a prostitute. That is not to say all prostitutes are the Normal Person* women, not at all, but the women who suffer being prostitutes are the Normal Person* women. The Savants* woman would never do it if she felt she was suffering for it.
As the Normal Person* feel joy for pleasing others, no matter what they must do in order to please others – whether they IMAGINE they are pleasing others or actually doing so, they may interpret a Savants*’s pleasure of doing what they want as pleasure of pleasing others. The Savants*, however, want to do both of those things at the same time: do as they want with someone who enjoys their actions the same way as they enjoy doing them. The Normal Person*, when they feel liberated and powerful, feel so when they please nobody. When they are absolutely abhorrent in their behavior and have every freedom of being so without anyone stopping them… Like a dictator-level leader. An the Savants* in that position would always seek to be kind to others and make sure everybody is served well under their protection. An the Savants* dictator sees themselves as the protector of their land and their people, not the only person with the right to destroy it and them.
the Savants* who thrive to give pleasure to their chosen people while receiving pleasure themselves can confuse the Normal Person* to no end. The Normal Person* do not understand mutual satisfaction, they can only see the satisfaction in the dominant/submissive counterpart, where the submissive is FORCED to submit, not given the freedom to do so. BDSM games don’t make any sense to the Normal Person*, because all of it is a play of pretending, where the submissive is always in charge, but many the Normal Person* are drawn to BDSM even though they don’t have the foggiest idea how it works. They will always overstep their mark, brat more than submit, and so forth. Only the Savants* know how to do BDSM or polyamory, but the Normal Person* are drawn to BDSM for the freedom to brutalize others, and to polyamory, because it gives them a community to be a part of… Even if it means they’ll have to prostitute themselves to others in order to be a part of the polyamorous community.
the Normal Person* will always try to blend into any group they want to be a part of, and they think the Savants* are doing the same thing. However, the Savants* seek for a group that already match their values, while the Normal Person* will change their external values to be a part of a group. The Savants* adjust their sharpest edges in order to keep peace in groups they have no other option than to adjust to, like school, churches, or a job, a family or another group – particularly when young, but the Savants*’ sharpest edges come out the older they get, the more money they have, and the more choice they get. The Savants* become less accommodating with age, and the Normal Person* become better adjusted to everything, albeit more than likely disillusioned with the lack of love they receive despite their best efforts to submit to other’s will.
An the Savants* in the right group seems well-adjusted like the Normal Person*, but the Normal Person* in the wrong group seems groveling and desperate for acceptance. An the Savants* who is truly in love with someone will behave similarly to the Normal Person* who is simply hoping that they will get love out of this person, but that doesn’t make them the same. The Normal Person* are quick to think they are loved by someone especially if that someone shows aggression toward them, which can happen between True Emotion Mirror pair of the Savants*. The Normal Person* are a bit quick to draw on the “I’m loved unconditionally” -belief, whereas the Savants* take a lot longer to accept they… MIGHT BE.
Still, often, the difference is a hair, and the Normal Person* are less likely than the Savants* to be able to even consider themselves in an objective light enough to see the difference. Despite my best efforts to have the Normal Person* self-assess themselves in a psychological test like the Savants* do without problems, the Normal Person* tend to choose the wrong category, but then again, the Savants*, can, too, but, again from a different perspective. The Normal Person* choose it “because I can’t be in the WRONG category!” the Savants* choose the wrong category “because I can’t give myself a compliment of being a Savants*, because THAT small thing puts me into the Normal Person* category”.
Speaking of dictators, I’m prone to put Adolf Hitler into the Savants* category, but most of his followers into the Normal Person* category. I believe Hitler’s situation was very… Troubled, but I authentically believe that his intentions were to improve humanity, not DICTATE it. I believe he did what he did in the genuine belief that some ugly things needed to happen for a better tomorrow, and he was wrong, of course, so incredibly wrong, but I do believe his idealism came from the Savants* category even though his actions were that of the Normal Person*. I also believe that a lot of what was happening in Nazi Germany was hidden from him by the Normal Person* followers who feared him and that he was operating largely blind to the events at times. I am in no way trying to sanctify what he was doing, just saying that he is a great example of a Savants* that seems to be the Normal Person* by his personality traits, when, in fact, he wasn’t.
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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