How to “be yourself” what defines “yourself”?
It is easier to see this from the negative perspective; If you enjoy hurting people, you are a hurtful person. If you enjoy taking what isn’t yours, that makes you a thief. If you enjoy cheating on people, that makes you a cheater and so forth.
As irresponsible as it sounds, I’ll suggest that it is always best to be yourself even if that made you a thief or a cheater, because believe it or not, there are people who will love you for it – and there’ll also be people who’ll hate you for it, just like, believe it or not, if you enjoy the challenge of always doing the right thing, that makes you a moralist – and there are people like that – they also most likely think of themselves as being better than others, which brings them enjoyment but makes other people hate them, but all the same, whatever we are, there’ll be people who hate you for it, and there’ll be people who love you for it.
This dynamic brings excitement into our world. I don’t think anyone truly enjoys the idea of a heaven, it sounds so deathly boring, doesn’t it? I’d rather live in a world of thieves and cunts than in a world where everyone was always super nice to each other… And I’m one of those nice people, as naughty and unjudgemental as I am, I’d like to consider myself a nice person… Although I am very judgemental of those who are not nice to others. Anyway… Anything you enjoy about yourself is definitely about you. A lot of people love to say mean thing about other people and to bitch and gossip and judge. That is what we are…. I like that too, to be honest. 😀 There is also a hierarchy to this, what do you love doing the most, and under what circumstances? I, for one, will never “fire the first shot” at a (specific) person (apart from anonymously on a blog), but I LOVE to defend another person against an unjust individual, and I LOVE to ram a person into the ground should they give me the slightest of reasons. I’m like one of those characters who have hidden super powers or who are really fierce fighters but who are just hoping for someone to “make their day” by giving them the excuse to ram their dominance down the throat of a proper asshole… With pure delight and joy of showing them who’s the boss.
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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