How to break an unwanted bond with a person you have a spirit connection to?

It is possible that an unwanted suitor, or a friend that should have never been a friend, a karmic soulmate, gains access to you in spirit.

I have been in this situation for 13 years, and nothing I do or say will make them disappear. However, I just realized something. I don’t suffer from it too much because everybody I actually love is here, too. It’s just that they’ve been here just about for as long, and from the very start, the man I thought was my “only Twin Flame” at the time of starting here was there, too. Therefore, I didn’t notice it. Maybe you ONLY have your karmic soulmate chasing you up and down the streets wherever you go, screaming, “I’m your Twin Flame, love me back!!” straight into your brain. Phew. That must suck. Anyway. I finally have an answer for you.

You don’t break a bond, you replace it.

These bonds don’t get broken, they must be replaced. As long as you need love, a minor soulmate fills that spot the best they can. If you feel loyalty to that person for whatever reason, or you think, “I’ll break up with this person, and AFTER THAT, I’ll find someone else,” you’ll never get rid of them.

I suggest this trick: You may not be able to get rid of that person, but you can make it abundantly clear that they’ve got competition. Then, you can REPLACE THEM.

Invite anyone you feel even the slightest connection to. Invite interesting people you pass on the street. Invite social media personalities you feel even the slightest connection or like-mindedness to. Invite all the celebrities you like. They may not all stay or feel the same way but heck, put a mass search mode on. There has to be someone! Make your karmic soulmate realize they are not the only person with the gift of love toward you.

At the same time, if you are ambitious in love and feel you could do better than what your soulmate in love with you gives you, put that to the test. Invite everyone you fancy into your spirit circles and see how you go. Maybe there is nobody but this person, but you’ll only know when others CAN speak to you, right? Don’t give up if you don’t get an answer from others immediately. That might mean you don’t know how to do it yet, but you will. Just try and see if it works. Just start casually: “Excuse me, sir, do you hear my thoughts? I’m just testing coms, really.”

How did I do it?

The way I did it was that I first started a random conversation with “my spirit guides.” Many people misunderstood me, and what I got instead were my soulmates. Among them WAS one True Emotion Mirror, but he was the only one to start with.

With him, we started exploring this new world like kids in a candy land. One day, we decided to ask a pair of celebrities about something. They started popping in to say hello, because they were as curious as we were about what is going on. 😀 After I reconnected with a former friend, the doors flung open – I didn’t exactly invite them in, but it might have started from something I thought about: “I have to ask all of my readers (of a Twin Flame blog) to join in and tell me if they can spot anything in my texts that would have ruined THEIR relationship if they’d read that piece of advice in a naïve state.” Instead of Twin Flames only, I got everybody.

Still, what that also did, is that it invited in my OTHER Twin Flames, as in my other True Emotion Mirrors, too. The whole Twin Flame theory broke apart. So at least now I knew that there were more than one Twin Flame, hence the new terms. However, my karmic soulmates insisted they were one of those True Emotion Mirrors, despite the fact they were all women, and I am very much not gay… I’m straight as an arrow – but that doesn’t bother my True Emotion Mirrors, as that’s how they like me.

Don’t be afraid of being honest or sharing your secrets with even your enemies.

Don’t do it if you feel weird about it, but don’t worry about it if you don’t. It’s OK. Go with your instinct, watch your step as you are. Be cautious where you feel caution to be required, trust your inner knowledge. You may not know why you do what you do – like sharing your secrets with your fucking enemy – but you’ll figure out why. Maybe your secrets are better out in the open…?

One thing, if you hide who you are from a karmic soulmate, fearing that if they knew your true self, they’d fall MORE in love with you. However, they may love you for the weaknesses they imagine in you. That’s usually the thing that attracts the Young Soul*; the opportunity. They see your weakness as a door in – you NEED them – not as an off-putting trait. Once they see you and your full colors, they realize they have nothing to offer you.

Your INTENT will determine the rules of your spiritual experience

This post may solve my problem because one of my rules has been to write everything down. Solve every problem. Answer every question and one of the most difficult ones is how to break an unwanted soul bond. So, if this is the advice I needed to give, my karmic soulmates should be easier to manage and go away completely.

That said, always be aware of your reasoning and intent, nuances in the back of your mind, highest goals, and ambitious virtues. That will define what rules your spiritual experiences function under. If you say honestly that you want to heal the world and MEAN IT, that will define how easily the spirit lets you move on. They will give you the tools to do what you want, but it can get a little tricky at that level of ambition. 😀 (It may also show you to your true limitations, but you know. We’ll see.)

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