How to break up with a True Emotion Mirror?

I always keep insisting that if you want to break up with a True Emotion Mirror¹ (without having the background feeling of “until things are right between us again,”) it’s not a True Emotion Mirror. In other words, nobody wants out of a healthy relationship, so if you want to break up with someone (because they’re just not very much fun), you were misinformed when you got the impression they are a True Emotion Mirror.

Be as it may, however, whomever you have difficulty leaving

a) Be reassured you have every right to break up with whomever you want, regardless of their spiritual bond with you, even a TrEmoR.
b) You won’t lose your only chance for real happiness and romance. This is very unlikely to be the one and only for you or even the correctly identified True Emotion Mirror

Is dumping a True Emotion Mirror difficult?

It should be relatively easy to get away from a True Emotion Mirror. They authentically love you and would never want to stand in the way of your true happiness. Therefore, if you want to get away from your TrEmoR, they’ll more than likely put up no fight over it.

The problematic bonds are False TrEmoRs, as in basically narcissistic Trail Companion*, who has gotten it into their head that you’re Twin Flames or something. In most cases, we’re talking about the Main Trap relationship, not a True Emotion Mirror relationship, if two things are true: a) You want out. b) You find it difficult to get out of it.

Why do they say the True Emotion Mirror bond is “unbreakable”?

The reason why we all say the True Emotion Mirror relationship is unbreakable is because the feelings these two have for each other are 100% real and based on the love for each of person’s very soul. It is mutual, and it’s based on the TRUTHFUL (true) Emotions that they Mirror both ways. Therefore, unless one of them changes on the core level in a fundamental way while the other stays the same, they could never NOT love each other.

This doesn’t mean the True Emotion Mirrors cannot be separated or interfered with. Nothing is easier than to convince a True Emotion Mirror that they’re not really loved back the same. However, the actual bond is still there, no matter what each individual says or does or who they’re married to. (It is stupid to marry someone else’s True Emotion Mirror, just so you know.)

How to break up with someone who has their mind set on you?

True Emotion Mirror or not, you can break up with anyone by simply refusing to play the game with them. Just make sure you are physically safe from them, and then, you can let them have the relationship all by their lonesome. Just refuse physical contact – phones, email, meeting them, etc, and stay firm.

You may not be able to stop telepathy – and this is absolutely NOT a certain sign of True Emotion Mirror bond; it most often is, but it’s also sometimes called good old Schizophrenia. You can be haunted by ghosts, being followed by anyone who finds you interesting, the telepathic connection alone. However, telepathy is a GOOD, reliable SIGN of a True Emotion Mirror connection, isn’t even nearly enough to be the only sign required to decide this is a True Emotion Mirror.

As I said, you may not be able to block them out completely, but you can stop collaborating with them. Don’t allow them emotionally manipulate you into compliance again. Jerk them around if you can: Say one thing, do another. Just be systematically difficult to live with.

And don’t forget to date other people – unless you fear for their or your own safety. (If you do, absolutely a HUGE negative True Emotion Mirror sign, as in True Emotion Mirrors don’t do this to each other.)

1. Approximately the same as Twin Flame, some theoretical differences apply. ↩

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