How to find your True Emotion Mirror (TrEmor)?

Remember when you were a child and a teen? You used to fantasize about your future a lot. You were excited to find out how your life would shape up, what kind of an adult you would become. These fantasies were probably crushed by reality, your parents’ expectations, just the real world getting in the way of who you wanted to be.

You learned to tell yourself to expect less, be less ambitious, to be less of a romantic.

Now I am asking you to reverse, back up where you last were hopeful and excited about your future, and now, have life experience on your side.

Your True Emotion Mirror(s) and your Perfect Life are inseparably linked

Because your True Emotion Mirror(s) is (are) you perfect counterpart(s), finding them requires you to find your own ideal self first. You don’t need to ACHIEVE this point, but you simply need to visualize where your goal is and what your ideals are.

My blog is filled with posts that help you do this. You need to figure out what it is that you WISH you were, rather than what it is that you ARE or do in this moment.  This will send a signal to the Universe, the shared consciousness that will pull your right people to you. (Trust me.)

What it also does, is that once you admit to yourself what it is that you TRULY want, you’ll be far less likely to settle for something that you feel you have to accept as “your fate”.

Imagine the most perfect possible partner(s)

Remember everyone’s perfection is different. Don’t feel bad if your dream girl or guy is an athlete because that is not how all people think. Many people want someone far cuddlier than an athlete, who also come with the annoying side dish of early morning jogs and spinach shakes or whatever. Paint the picture of YOUR perfection, your absolute dream. When you’re in doubt, just ask yourself whether this is your ideal or what you expect people to want you to want.

It is common we tend to reject our own ideal at first, we tend to say it’s too much of a cliche, or it’s too easy, too obvious, right? Because it is the easiest thing in the world to love the person you love, the type of a person you love, you think everyone would think they’re the ideal person and thus, your love for them is “a cliche”, but no… That’s not at all the case.

Someone like X but…

Do you know some near perfect people? Use them as your inspiration. Someone like Selena Gomez but less famous. Someone who looks like Matthew Perry but is actually a soccer coach, anything. Someone who is a lot like someone you know but agrees with me on Y.

You know how some people don’t see eye to eye with you on some “no-brainer” things? Stop fighting them about it, and create your own ideal. “Someone like that person but…” Learn to let go of the people who are near perfect but not quite, the people who you have to wrangle down to the obvious ideal of a life of yours. Stop insisting that you know how relationships work but this person doesn’t – their ideal is different to yours, and that’s why they’re so stubborn. Find someone who likes the same things as you, shares your values.

Nothing is childish!

Quit judging yourself and your needs. If you want someone equally sexual or someone equally excited about toy trains or miniatures as you are, or someone who is sexually turned on by miniature toy trains, whatever you’re into, make a point of it. Imagine the weirdest possible human being, because THAT PERSON needs to hear they are loved just the way they are. Imagine what it feels like to be a person with a fetish for toy trains and realize someone out there, ANYWHERE IN THE WORLD really, is dreaming of a relationship with a person just like them!

This dream is sent to our collective consciousness, and the wheels will start to turn for you to find each other. You don’t have to know how it will simply happen… Once you’re ready.

What can stand in your way

Be honest with yourself. What is it that you want in this life? Is any part of what you want in the way of your true happiness?

Do you want it too clean? Is it that you don’t want to get your hands dirty, for instance, you don’t want to break up a marriage for your true love to be realized? Do you want to lose weight before you allow your true love to see you? Are you ashamed of some aspect about yourself that you want out of the way before starting your life with your true loves?

If you want a perfect reunion, you’ll have to lay the perfect groundwork.

You may have to accept certain things about yourself – bisexuality, homosexuality, being polygamousORpolygynandrous by your ideal, being some of the common hickups on your way to true love. (Monogamous heterosexuality is not the only template for true love, and that is why so many people fail to find it, as they ONLY think of it in terms of heterosexuality, or at least monogamy.)

You have to accept yourself for who you are, and THIS is the toughest part for a lot of people. You will also have to accept, that by accepting what you are, you’ll also find the people around you DISAPPROVING LIKE MAD. THE people who you thought were your rock, will likely REJECT the person who you actually are, and fight hard to make you go back into your own box in which they love you.

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