How to get over a feeling of aimlessness and feeling stuck in lack of motivation?

If you’re feeling aimless, lost, sort of depressed, lacking direction or goals, here’s a lit of things you could do. No need to do all of them, at least not right now, but you could.

List of things to do to find your way back to reality through spirituality.

Now, I have a few words of wisdom about it all.

• Stop telling yourself you have everything you need to be happy. Clearly, you don’t. What do you need?
• You don’t need to do things the same way I or anyone else did. Feel your way into it, do it YOUR WAY. If it doesn’t feel right to you but worked fine for someone else, just remind yourself that you’re you, and they’re them.
• You don’t need permission to talk about your feelings to anyone at all. They may not be a great listener, but you can still talk as much as you like. (Mutter to yourself if there’s nobody listening.)
• When you stand up as your authentic self, everyone else must adjust. Once you stand up, we’ll be one more human closer to a perfect planet. We all thank you for doing it. It may feel selfish, but it will be a gift to us all.
• In your mind, ask for guidance from an entity or person you trust. If you can’t name them, imagine their emotional fingerprint. What should they feel like to you? Serious? Humorous? Wise? Openminded? Should they show you to the destination of their choosing or help you choose a destination and then find the route to it? (I recommend the latter. The first option invites users, and the second invites benevolent spirits.)
• Allow yourself to disappoint people.
• Forgive yourself for going back on your word.
• Stop trying to be a good person, just be good enough: just aim to not be the problem. Be a solution only where you can be and wish to be.
• Be loyal to yourself and your dreams, not someone who demands your loyalty.
• Cut out friends who are a negative influence in your life, and give attention to those who are positive. (Give attention to friends who make you happy and delighted (to help), over “friends” who make you feel drained and used (when you help them).)
• Make a difference between friends and lovers, and don’t confuse that boundary again, but notice that a lover has to be a friend, too.
• Finish the thought that you think is inappropriate to continue thinking about – think it through carefully, all the way to the end.
• When you feel uncomfortable feeling, focus on the source of it and name it.
• Do not avoid your negative thoughts or sources of sadness. It’s like letting an infection go unattended. You have to get it out.
• Do not numb your feelings with mood levelers unless you ABSOLUTELY have to. You must be suicidal for them to be a good thing. Allow yourself to be a problem for others as you work things through.
• Allow yourself to day dream. EVEN IF YOU DON’T THINK it’ll ever happen. You might be surprised how easily you can see a connection between here and there if you allow yourself to dream the impossible dream.
• Avoid realistic goals. Realistic goals are the suck. (Because if you achieve them, you feel like well, you were supposed to… If you don’t, you feel like well, you were supposed to, and it makes you feel twice as bad. The reason why you didn’t achieve it wasn’t because you didn’t have it in you but because the goal was… realistic. Boring.) Go for INSPIRING goals. Something you’d fist pump the air for achieving, even if you’re not at all the type (I know you’d still do it alone in your bedroom and walk out pretending to be cool still). 😀 Go for dreams you’d be proud to get to the half way point achieving, and once you get there, go the rest of the way whistling.
• Never again underestimate the importance of right people in your life. It MATTERS who you spend time with and whose energy you let into your life.
• Never again underestimate the importance of the right kind of sex in your life. Stop letting others define what is “the right kind” for you.
• You decide what matters to you in a relationship. Let others decide what matters to them. Don’t mix (too closely) with people who see importance of things differently.
• Stop doing affirmations and gratitude exercises. They are the suck. They are easily made to trick your brain into accepting what you have is all you need, even if what you have isn’t enough to make you truly happy. There’s a right way to do both, but for now, just ditch them.
• Embrace REALITY. Truth. The way things are – and realize there’s an answer to every problem. Maybe not a perfect one, but an answer nonetheless.
• You know yourself better than anybody else knows you. Still, you probably have some learning to do about yourself, too. Stop looking for someone to tell you who or what you are, and what you need to be happy. You have to start informing yourself on that matter, and most likely informing others, as well.
• Focus on what you know for a fact, and start building your new world view on facts YOU can verify. Do you know Earth is round? Meh, no, not really. Do you know you’re sitting firmly on your chair? Yes. Yes you do.
• Follow your guidance but don’t quiet your own reason and logic to show faith. Question, demand solid answers or find them yourself. (Good entities are not narcissistic. They’ll answer questions or lead you to answers. Good reasons to not answer a question is: They don’t know. They want you to figure it out yourself, so you’ll internalize it better, or you’re just asking dumb questions to annoy them and you know it. A good entity does not accuse you of stupidity if your question was authentic.) Don’t think spirits without bodies present atm. are somehow wiser and smarter than you as a consequence. They’re about as smart as they are in regular human form.
• Have you ever truly tried to do your best at anything? Always left something in the bank for excuses? Completely normal, but hey… What would happen if you gave it a PROPER go?
• Start where you feel the easiest or natural to start. Start wherever. Everything is connected to everything, so it doesn’t matter where you start digging.

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