How to get over a rejection?

If you are a monogamist, this should be easy for you.

You know each one of us typically can only have ONE partner, ideally, for the rest of their lives.

Think about that.

The more wanted a person is, the more options they have to choose from to be that one single partner in this world.

Whenever they feel “I could do better” the temptation to keep looking is there.

Therefore, you’d have to be more special to them than a few billion potential partners they haven’t even met yet are.

You’d have to be THE BEST CHOICE out of an incredible amount of people, or someone so amazing they don’t even CONSIDER looking for a better one still.

Who in their right mind would get offended for not being the best person out of billions, especially if you think as highly as “the best out of 7 billion” about the other person?

If you don’t think they’re best but a compromise, then, you don’t deserve them anyway and you can choke on your own bitterness.

If you are a non-monogamist, you’ll still have to put things into perspective. There’s a lot of people in this world, and there’s no shame in losing in a competition like that.

It’s not that this person doesn’t like you, they simply don’t think you are The Single Best Person In The World. That’s all.

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