How to get rid of a trust-bonded or overly-eager Young Soul*

Take a leaf out of the playbook of a person with an Avoidant Attachment Disorder: Make it THEIR FAULT that your relationship isn’t going anywhere.

A person with an Avoidant Attachment Disorder will do this with everyone, you can apply it to one person or the unwanted type of people.

“I don’t think you are ready for anything serious.”

Whenever things are getting serious, like sex or a romantic date or moving toward “closeness,” pretend to see some issue with them: “I don’t think you’re ready for this.” or “I don’t think you actually want this.”

“I think you’re doing this only because I want it.” “I cannot, in good conscience, continue with this.”

You can add a “call me if you change your mind” or “give it a little thought and then call me when you know what the issue is.”

Always randomly arrive to the conclusion THEY don’t really want it with you. Don’t let them say they’re ready for it, decide for them that they are not.

Unlike an AAD, don’t go back for more.

People with an AAD will pull this and then come back for a new attempt. Don’t do that. Let them come to you if they still think you’re not insane.

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