I do not believe in the existence of pure evil. I believe in not knowing what is right and wrong (in every new situation).

The way we treat people is a skill. We learn to treat other people better over time. As we reincarnate, we become better and better at it every time. When we are reborn, the lessons we learned are going to be re-taught, and sometimes, we lack that education and we get stuck to a very primitive level of understanding how relationships work. Often, we only require a little reminder, sometimes we need an entirely new lesson.

This is why I do what I do. I educate already highly socially skilled people to be even better. The unexpected differences in our thinking, our inherent understanding of what is right and wrong, change the way we do things, without it meaning that we ARE evil. While our intent may be pure, the outcome can be anything but. That is why you have to know the difference between the Modern and a Timeless because their perspective on what is right and wrong are so profoundly different that they will never see eye to eye on anything, and they will NEED TO leave each other alone. (This is emotionally a much harder lesson for the Modern to learn than it is for a Timeless.)

I believe that stopping evil from happening can be as simple as educating people on how to treat each other in the moment and in general.

Let’s talk about rape, for example.

I do not believe that even rapes are a sign of pure evil existing in the world. Not even child rapists are pure evil, even if you believe they are. I believe that a rapist believes themselves to be welcome to, OR they are reacting to something that they believe raping someone is a justified reaction to it. All in all, nobody ever does anything they don’t consider to be justified for one reason or another.

Always assume that a rapist is not quite aware of your true feelings in that moment. Quickly enlighten them. Men will get the message faster than women for some reason. “Honey, honey, stop! I am paid to be nice to everybody; I didn’t mean to flirt with you!” Speak to a rapist as if he was a 6-year-old boy with raging hormones driving him. His need to be a good boy is still there. His need and ambition to be a good man can be easily awakened. A gentle tone will do wonders; if that won’t do, anger like a parent or teacher would.

Do not fear a rapist. They are not thinking straight, but they can be notched to. Even a child can talk sense to a grown person. “You can’t just take a child away from a parent! I mean, imagine if that was allowed! You have to take me back to my mom before you get into trouble!” When you treat people with the understanding that they are NOT EVIL but just nice people doing something they didn’t quite understand the consequences of, you’ll get a lot faster connection to them. (And I know I’m not always following my own rules perfectly – I’m still learning to trust good intent can trump even stupidity when you speak to someone at the level of a child, expecting the logic of a child to kick in, even if the person is lacking adult understanding.)

Find the love.

Whenever you are expressing an unpleasant topic, such as “I do not love you,” explain it as if you’d explain it to your own child. An unpleasant news is something we all need to live with and we learn it as children. “There are certain things we cannot do or have and here’s the reason why. Today is a day when you got a chance to grow a little bit more.”

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