If everything will work out for the best, how did Universe know?

Sometimes we come to a place in our lives where everything is suddenly perfect, although it was the most painful journey to get there… Does this prove destiny? Does this mean we have no control over our own fate? No. It doesn’t. It means quite the opposite.

When everything was created, when God split into atoms and spirits and everything that life is made of, we didn’t know where this was headed – no part of us knew or knows where we are going, not even God – especially not God as he has no say in it! The point of the Universe was to be an experiment: what would happen if everything was possible and there was no rules? What if everything in this Universe had the freedom to become anything at all? What would happen? God could possibly make us do as he wishes, but with great power comes great responsibility and respect demands that he will not interfere at any circumstance: WE decide what we’re going to do next, and God is just answering every belief, just going: “uhhuh, that sounds a bit crazy, but there you go… I wonder why you would believe that to be true, but it’s your life…” and sits back amazed, enthralled! We are bizarre – but that’s the whole point of life. We are the best damned reality show there’s ever been. “What do they think of next? What marvellous mess are they going to put themselves into next? How will they misguide each other next? This will be exciting…” So if even God doesn’t know what’s going to happen, how do we have any idea?

Our souls make plans, but they sometimes fall through. Using myself as an example that made me figure this out: I was aligned to meet two soulmates at the ripe age of 18, I chose not to speak to them, although I ADORED them already, they are musicians and I’m a fan, but I stayed put. God gave me the opportunity, but my soul kindly declined. I needed to see what I would be alone. Would I found out all of this *makes a grand gesture towards all the things I write about in this blog* if I had gone with them that day in July 1994? Quite definitely yes, but through completely different struggles. That path wouldn’t have been easy either, it would probably involved a few more fights, separation, drug problems, public drama and God knows what, instead of loneliness, heart break, repeated rejections, professional failure and poverty… But in the end, I would have found myself here, because I self-actualize. I will become what I become, like a drop of water in a vacuum I cannot stop forming a perfect sphere… We become what we are eventually, the closer to a vacuum we find ourselves; ridding ourselves from other’s influence will give us a vacuum to become our perfect selves in, and this will be the point of “it all worked out for the best in the end.”

I am looking at the alternative paths I could have taken… Maybe I did take the easy way to what I am, even if it involved poverty and heart ache and loneliness… But I never had to spit in the face of my most beloved, I never had to go through the pain of losing someone I love simply because we can’t stand the sight of each other… And that is what would have happened in scheme 1… No matter what route I’d take, I’d always end up where my intention took me… Right here… Or rather, right there, where I’m going.

Will it always work out for the best? In a way, yes. The best solution you allow. You won’t reach full awareness if you don’t work at it or want it, and you can blindly follow societal expectations all through your life and never get things right. It is up to you, your desire, your goals, your confidence and wishes. If you only want to survive life, you’ll survive it, but I always had an intention to be big. I always aimed high. I am still far from where I’m headed, but I can see the path in front of me clear as day. Settling will get you exactly where you are at now. Agreeing that this is good enough, “I am satisfied” will give you no propeller to move forward. You have to have a dream a goal… even if that dream was completely unrealistic, that is what you need to manifest first: a dream, a vision of a grander future. Without dreams or goals, you won’t move. You won’t change. You won’t evolve. All dreams are steps for evolution. You don’t have to aim big for the sake of big, especially if you wouldn’t even know what to do with big… It’s just me.

How did the Universe know where you wanted to go? You told it. You said you want this that or another, and sometimes the road to that place is rocky indeed. You can’t drive to a mountain top nobody else has been to yet. That is why sometimes it feels that our lives are a struggle and we’re not getting what we want out of life, because we’re only on our way to something better. Sometimes we just believe we’re going to get this that or another, and lo and behold, there it is; an unhappy marriage. Some of us let God handle it – and although he hasn’t got a say in what your life turns out to be (he can’t force it) you can choose to let him fix the easiest path to your destination or even choose the destination for you. Up to you. How does a psychic know what’s ahead if it hasn’t been destined? They can see the road ahead, but it doesn’t mean you can’t turn back if you so choose or take another route, but as we self-actualize we most likely stay on course even if we did have to look for the right path blind-folded at times. And it’s that blind fold that makes things tricky. It takes time to learn to walk steady when blinded, but we learn. Sooner or later we stand up and trust our step in the darkness, because we can sense where we are going otherwise.

Have a good journey, hey?

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