If it’s embarrassment you fear…

Embarrassment, albeit humans’ greatest fear, is not a real danger. It’s just an emotion. However, there’s a question there: Are you worried about embarrassing yourself in front of people who really don’t need to hear or see your real self, as it is of no concern of theirs? Like taking your clothes off in front of people with whom you have no intention of having sex with. Like why would you?

No, find a way to express yourself to people you trust, or at least minimize the embarrassment by trying to target who you want (online) instead of whoever is out there. I don’t think there is a need to expose yourself to absolutely everyone if you’re clever about it.

Here’s the problem. If you’re looking for the right people, there’s often a whole heap of wrong people around you. You cannot really act yourself and be yourself around the wrong people. Therefore, you’ll feel embarrassed and unable to really express yourself freely.

Sure, you can rip your clothes off and just run for it, but maybe there’s another way.

See a random post if it would have ideas for you.

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