If somebody thinks they’re too good for you, and you’re not willing to change for them…

Here’s the mathematics in relationships: If you are rejected by a person who thinks you’re not what they want, but you’re not willing to do the work to reach their level, either you think they’re not good enough for you or they’re right, and you’re not good enough for them.

If you’re in love with someone, you WILL agree they’re worth changing for – is that going to be enough is another thing. (For instance… If you’re a lesbian girl in love with a heterosexual girl, no change will help your situation… Incredibly, I know people who are still willing to try… Hoping against hope that THEY’ll be the one girl in this world to change the other one’s sexual orientation because heterosexuality in women, isn’t a real thing… Right? Wrong. Anyway. Not the topic of the post.)

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