If someone insists you’re their True Emotion Mirror (or Precious Soulmate) you have to learn to ignore it.

I read somewhere that for Twin Flames to come together, all other relationships must be solved before that can happen. As the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology is based on the same phenomenon, explained with new, more specific terms, I feel like I have to address this notion… And a few similar beliefs.

We create our spiritual environment based on what we BELIEVE to be true. It’s like creating a new board game; what we take for the truth becomes the truth, even if it isn’t the truth. (In addition, there are some actual limitations, like physics and… well. True feelings.) If you believe another person can stop you from having a life with your True Emotion Mirror by simply refusing to let go of you, you’ll give them way too much power over your True Emotion Mirror relationship. They should have none. You should give them none.

Therefore, ignore this other person and their misguided love for you. After all, for as long as they can stand between you and your true love(s), they can get all of your attention to themselves, and that’s intoxicating for them. Instead, ignore them; they are not a party to your relationship, and they should be treated as such; an outsider. Don’t get angry with them – that’s another way they can get to you; just ignore them.

You do need to resolve your emotional conflicts, however.

There is another thing that needs to happen, and this is simply the truth; you cannot have TOO MANY emotional conflicts about this whole thing to stop you from going there, and accepting that love, and maintaining that relationship. This goes deeper than having an emotional conflict about who you’re actually in love with; you might be polygamous, and you’ll need to resolve the emotional conflict you have between being polygamous and completely associating true love as a state of monogamy.

You’ll have to resolve your emotional conflicts to your moral compass and what you now consider “ideal” and what actually IS ideal. You’ll have to accept THE TRUTH about you and your True Emotion Mirror(s) and their relationship to you.

You’ll also need to accept yourself for who you are – and them, too.

Then, there’s the part about your authentic ego. Your false ego needs to go away for the parts that are directly in the way of you coming together. If you, for instance, cannot handle the idea that you’d break up someone’s marriage and your True Emotion Mirror happens to be married, then all you have left in your tool box is hoping for them to break up on their own… And that’s a question of values. Which is more important to you at the end of the day?

If you cannot see yourself as someone who would live a polygamous lifestyle, then you’ll have some thinking to do there, too. But if you’re truly a 3-to-300-way mashup, then, heck, that’s what you’ll have to resolve with yourself; MAYBE you’re not a freaking monogamist, and that’s the end of it. And if you cannot accept it, how are you going to return to your True Emotion Mirror relationship that got started and solidified when polygamy was the done thing? What if you’ve just been a bit of a (man) slut your whole existence, and your True Emotion Mirrors loved you for it? Those are things you’ll need to come to terms with.

There is NO NEED for you to be a perfect human being for this.

Perfectionists are excluded here… If you are a perfectionist, that’s one of those things you’ll need to accept about yourself, but for the rest of you, don’t be bothered by perfectionists. It is NOT a requirement unless you feel perfect authenticity is a state of perfectionism, which may not be perfection per se, but it’s just truthfulness… But be it as it may, you don’t need to FORCE YOURSELF to reach whatever you deem perfect just so you can be with your True Emotion Mirror(s). Whatever YOU feel is important is important, and only that. Our requirements for ourselves vary quite a bit.

True love is not the sole property of perfect angels, even if you do need to be perfect for each other… In all of your gory imperfections.

It is not easy, but it may not be as hard as you are now thinking.

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