If you hate yourself, let’s discuss things for a bit

If you hate/loathe yourself it is most likely a sign of a good person. You. The only people who never criticise themselves, who never question their own motives, who never check up on themselves are those people who just don’t give a damn, right? These people are very unlikely to be nice people. If you don’t like yourself, the most likely reason for it is that you hold high standards for people and you can’t quite reach them… Because you’re human.

Sex, drugs, fat, piss, and shit

Religions have worked for millennia to make people despise themselves. I betcha I can undo their work in one or two lifetimes. 😉 That’s my goal anyway. One lifetime for people to learn to love themselves and each other for what we all are. But before that, let’s back up a little.

Sex

The biggest hate/loathe target of all religions has always been sex. Why? Mostly because men believe women suffer during sex, and they have learned to hate themselves for wanting it. Then, they’ve learned to hate women who they find desirable because they coax a man to do evil things to her. “If you hate it so much, stop tempting me!”

Imagine humans becoming self-aware. We realized that our actions may hurt other people, like the ones that we love the most. You hold a woman underneath you and she whimpers. She bleeds from where you stabbed her. You love her more than anything in the world, but she suffers because of you – or so it seems. Because you are a beautiful person, a man in love, or at least some early human, you start avoiding making love to your beautiful wife, because she bleeds and whimpers when you do.

You know logically that you didn’t hurt her, but the instinct remains: You are hurting her with your love.

Then, men started teaching other men to not do awful things to women!

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