If you want a community, don’t make it to be about True Emotion Mirrors (or Twin Flames or soulmate healing.)

Spirituality is a highly personal thing. There is a reason why Buddhist monks are not allowed to talk to each other, and why a lot of spiritual communities rely on the wow of silence. You’re supposed to do your own thinking. You are supposed to connect to God, the Universe, and your True Emotion Mirrors ALONE. The only company you can have for this is, in fact, your True Emotion Mirrors – not your Precious Soulmates; only your True Emotion Mirrors are close enough for this.

Breaking this rule creates toxic cults and organizations that only make matters worse. If it is a community you seek, make it about ANYTHING except HEALING. The only other person you can trust to help you heal is your psychologist, or someone else capable of maintaining neutrality and distance even when you try to lean on them too closely.

If you have met your True Emotion Mirror(s), you know exactly why I’m telling you to not speak to people who don’t have found theirs. Sometimes you can’t avoid it – especially if you’re coaching, but do not create a community around it. Do not create communities CLOSE to it, like yoga or similar, to get around the rule. Not even online… Especially not online.

If you need a community, join a sewing club (or something).

If you need a community, find yourself a sewing club, start a toy train collector club, or join the local lawn bowling club, but don’t use spirituality as an excuse to come together with other people. It turns into abuse TOO EASILY. Even if you could handle yourself in such a situation, the other two in your club may not be, and you can’t control what they do to each other after you all head home in the evening… Not that you should control it, but you see what I’m saying?

Come together to discuss matters of the spirit with your True Emotion Mirrors only. Occasionally, you may talk one-on-one with other people. NEVER create a community, support group, or otherwise organize around the topic of spirituality or anything that offers “free love,” “unconditional love,” or “god’s love,” or, indeed, the love of your True Emotion Mirror as a reward for joining.

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