Inconsiderate or deliberate? Is this person a narcissistic manipulator?

Old Soul* and the Modern think entirely differently. They are like a night and day. Therefore, the Timeless kindness is the opposite of Modern kindness. Old Soul* typically suffocates their feelings near the Modern, because if the Timeless speaks their mind, it results into an out-and-out war because the Modern typically doesn’t see how their actions could be considered insulting, while the Timeless can see how someone might consider their way of doing things insulting, even if they wish it done the other way around.

Young Soul* shows kindness and acceptance by meddling in everything you do. They are so maternal or paternal that the Timeless feel themselves babied, criticized, and disrespected, when the Modern tries to tell them they are valuable and cared for. Young Soul* will also break boundaries without a second thought, they’re in your face and on your skin, and feel welcome there because they’re loved or because they love you.

By and large, the Modern feel welcome into everything they do, and they don’t truly observe boundaries, that they don’t see how there could be any between friends let alone lovers.

This is kindness that the Timeless have labeled “narcissism.” On the other hand, the Modern have labeled the Timeless kindness narcissism. Both are equally incorrect labels. We are simply inherently incompatible as thinker types, and that’s all there is to it. What we can do is to acknowledge that fact and stop trying to force relationships into being, which means that us Timeless people have to learn clever ways to stay outside the Modern boundaries by avoiding getting into their radar at all because the Timeless don’t like boundaries. “I came in like a wrecking ball…”

The reason why the Timeless think the Modern is a manipulator, is that they actually make a lot of sense, and they are acting in a very loving and caring way… Just that their expectations in relationships are entirely different to those of the Timeless. They see the relationship going in places where the Timeless would never go unless to fuck someone up royally. What the Modern does out of kindness, the Timeless does to spite them.

Narcissim is not a real thing. It’s simply a matter of perspective.

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