Is it possible to fix relationships with the “stuck in an elevator” -method?
Many of us believe that it would be the best way to solve any relationship problems to lock the feeding parties into a room until they sort out their differences. I have now been in a simulated situation such as that for over ten years, and yes, some relationships solved within hours, and some have gotten worse and worse by the day.
Here’s the break down of what I’ve figured.
True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates
These two are the kind who will always see eye-to-eye IN REALITY, and the only thing keeping them separated is a misunderstanding of some description. Once they learn to understand each other’s perspective and meaning, they’ll be fixed. Quite likely in a very short time span.
the Cat Type Thinkers and a Cat Type Thinkers – Trail Companions* (or Basal Value Mirrors)
When you lock in two Trail Companions* that are both the Cat Type Thinkers in their personality type, which will also automatically make them Basal Principle Mirrors, they will approach the situation from the same position of mutual respect (even if the respect ONLY extends as far as the respect of each other’s freedom, right to be who they are, and their right to self-govern,). Their base question is: “are we lovers, friends, or acquaintances?” They will ALWAYS come to an agreeable solution to separate amicably once they understand each other well enough. This shouldn’t take too long.
the Dog Type Thinker and the Dog Type Thinker – Trail Companions* (or Basal Principle Mirrors*)
When you combine Trail Companions* are both the Dog Type Thinker in their base thinking; you’ll also automatically get Basal Principle Mirrors. They will approach the situation similarly: “Are we friends or enemies?” They will separate violently if they agree to be enemies: “Let’s pretend we don’t even know of each other’s existence.” If they agree to be friends, they’ll do so with a similar fierceness: “Then, we’ll be friends until death do us part, and whatever issues we have, we’ll sort through them.” And, as the Cat Type Thinkers, they will. If they cannot agree, they’ll opt-in to be friends, but something of “frenemies”, as in we will keep slugging this out until we know where we stand.
the Cat Type Thinkers and the Dog Type Thinker -Trail Companions*
If two Trail Companions* are of the pairing of Cat Type Thinking* and Lover-thinking*, there is NOTHING that can bring these two types together in any harmonious union. The ONLY way to sort out their differences is to agree to disagree and separate permanently. However, their differences are SO MASSIVE from the get-go, that there is very little you can do to speed up this process, but while the Cat Type Thinkers will grow to hate the Dog Type Thinker more and more daily, the Dog Type Thinker grows more and more attached and desperate to keep the relationship going, FURTHERING the Cat Type Thinkers’s desperation and need to get the hell away from the Chalk.
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