Is it right to feel sex would be a factor in a relationship based on true romantic love?

Yes.

There is absolutely no reason why sex would go away from a relationship between two physically healthy people who are in love IF they are sexual in the first place. There are people who are asexual, and there’s nothing to change that, but they shouldn’t be in relationships with sexual people. Asexual people are not romantically compatible with sexual people.

You have the right to want to enjoy your own sexuality. You have a right to assume sexual relationships are based on sexual chemistry. Sexy romances are your right as a man and as a woman.

“If you loved me” goes both ways. If you loved me you’d have sex with me. If you loved me you would not lock me into a sexless relationship. Is it manipulation or a simple fact? I’m leaning it is a fact that if someone loves you romantically or sexually, they should wish for physical closeness. How else does it even make sense? The definition of a romantic relationship is the sexuality of it. SURE, we tend not to emphasize sexuality as it’s very private, and we call it “romantic” to avoid calling it “sexual” in front of mom and dad, but a romantic relationship is sexual, apart from demi-sexual relationships, but those have to be conducted between two demi sexual people, not between a demi-sexual and a hetero/bi/homosexual.

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