Is that my True Emotion Mirror, or is it that one? Fearing mistakes.

When you’re consciously trying to find your True Emotion Mirror, you’ll find yourself super focussed on the external signs of it. You’ll be terrified in making the wrong choice because you need to keep yourself available for your True Emotion Mirror. However, this can seriously harm the search itself, and open you up to missing the whole thing being too nervous to actually fall in love. So let’s discuss what’s important.

Don’t let anyone tell you THEY are your True Emotion Mirror

First of all, there are plenty of instances when someone insists upon insisting that they are your True Emotion Mirror and that’s all there is to it – submit to it or commit a sin toward god, right? That is NOT how a True Emotion Mirror speaks to you. They are TERRIFIED THEY are going to pressure you into making the wrong choice, and they do not want to be that wrong choice.

The STRONGEST that an actual True Emotion Mirror makes a claim on you, to you, face-to-face, without your agreement is this: “I think we might be .” They may KNOW it stronger, and talk to others about you with a very assured feeling: “I KNOW he/she is my True Emotion Mirror, I don’t care how long it takes for him or her to snap to his or her senses but, I know.” Sometimes they’re wrong, but as every sensible person knows, they CAN BE wrong. Therefore, REAL do not pressure the person who they think is their True Emotion Mirror into a relationship with them, because they fear they might be mistaken, even if that fear is a fraction of a fraction of the whole.

A True Emotion Mirror ALWAYS puts the needs of their counterpart ahead of their own, and I don’t care what anyone says about jealousy or possessiveness or rights or whatever to the contrary, they don’t know what they are talking about if that’s what they’re saying.

The point of tentacles will come around, yes, but a True Emotion Mirror is never too handsy with you, and even if they were in some cases, they will have to mature up before they can even handle such a relationship as that of a True Emotion Mirror bond requires. PLEASE do us all a favor and reject these people strongly, self-assuredly, and brutally if you must, so they’ll learn faster. Be cruel to be kind to them, too.

True Emotion Mirror signs

True Emotion Mirror signs exist, yes. I can list a ton, and as amazing as they sometimes are, mysterious and even paranormal, none of that matters in relation to mutual love you feel for each other.

Even at the MILDEST POSSIBLE LEVEL, you know, before the connection has matured to its full power, there’s a mutual curiosity that draws you together. MUTUAL, MUTUAL, MUTUAL, right! I cannot stress this mutual feeling enough, too many people believe that running behavior means that the other partner “isn’t in touch with their emotions” or that “they’re not spiritual enough”. That is condescending self-congratulating ego-protecting bullshit that should have no place in a True Emotion Mirror conversation. Running happens, but the motivation for it isn’t a lack of love the person feels. If you do not feel love toward a person, that is not your True Emotion Mirror, guaranteed. No matter how much they swear love toward you, it’s of no consequence, I promise. If you don’t feel the same, not your True Emotion Mirror.

The reason why a True Emotion Mirror runs from the relationship is that they DO love you, and they are more than aware of it, but they are afraid of one thing or another thing. There’s plenty of things to be afraid of with , and it may take a long time to figure things out and mature into it. This is why many, many people meet their True Emotion Mirror in their early 20’s but never get together until in their 40’s or 50’s. (Many only after their parents die, which is another curious element in this, namely sexually oppressed parent’s obsessive need to protect their daughters from mature sexual passion.)

MUTUAL LOVE, MUTUAL LOVE, MUTUAL LOVE; Lust is a true sign of true love

Now… Let me return back to the number one requirement of a True Emotion Mirror connection. The feelings must be mutual in order for it to qualify as a True Emotion Mirror connection. This doesn’t mean that the person who doesn’t love is faulty, or that they need to “learn to love” the one that loves them, no. This means that the one who is in love must learn to accept one of life’s basic lessons: You can’t always have the one you want. Simple as that.

People who have learned that love isn’t always returned have also learned something else that is a valuable life lesson: In order to be loved, you have to be worthy of love. Being able to feel love doesn’t make anyone a higher spirit. EVERY creature in this world knows how to love. I GUARANTEE YOU THIS: No matter how low you are on the scale of spiritual evolution, emotional evolution, maturity, no matter how young you are how old you are or how “psychopathic” you are, you know how to love.

Even psychopathy is not an excuse to try and “teach someone to love you”

People who insist another person is unable to make their own choice in who they love but should be guided to loving them instead can use psychology against that person to lower their will to resist the demand of love. In short, the narrative goes: “I(or X) love you, therefore, you’re supposed to love me(X) back. You don’t love me(X), therefore, you must be damaged in the brain.” Do not allow anyone to push that narrative on you or anyone else, ever. It is toxic and selfish, and very, very short-sighted, and also, a certain sign of some form of a toxic personality disorder in that person. (Kind of a matter of opinion this one, don’t you think?)

I SWEAR even psychopaths love, they just don’t love the people who they’re ordered to love. (In short, they don’t love nice, normal/average people.) Psychopathy, in spiritual terms, is the state of having been removed/blocked from those reincarnating spirits (people) this person truly loves.

I believe psychopathy is a consequence of jealousy- and superiority complex – driven a spiritual act of people who cannot let go of someone who they believe to be a “faulty, unevolved True Emotion Mirror of theirs”. They isolate this person so they are the only contact to other people this person has. They remove that person’s access to people sHe naturally loves, in an attempt to force them to recognize the people who “truly love them”. They fail to recognize the feeling of love in others, and only recognize their own feeling of obsessive possession in themselves and others like themselves as “genuine, true love”. Often, they assume physical beauty is the sole motivator for another person’s love, (“he’s obsessed with her because she’s so pretty, but truly, he loves me!”) but the fact they so often are obsessively in love with someone physically attractive themselves doesn’t seem to bother them in its blatant hypocrisy.

Love is the easiest feeling in the world – but it doesn’t happen on command

Further, to make it perfectly obvious you don’t have to pretend to love ANYONE, here’s the thing. Love is the easiest, most amazing feeling you can feel. Everyone fukken knows that. It is FUN to be in love, and yes, it can feel frustrating when that love isn’t returned. It’s like those times when you really, really, really want to play, but your friends are being boring. Still, love, albeit being a game, it isn’t a game. Another person’s feelings or the lack of them is also not a toy. We all want to fall in love, I promise, but we cannot fall in love on command. That is what makes love so special. It has to be authentic in order for it to happen. You have to FIND IT, not command it or boss it around. We FIND it. We LOOK for it because it doesn’t answer commands, kids.

Where does this need of obsessing over True Emotion Mirror signs come from?

Now, circling back to the front again, the obsessive need to focus on True Emotion Mirror signs is two-fold. They can be used in this very argument over non-love. When someone insists to you that you should love a person A but you feel love toward person B. Person A is there in your face demanding you love them back, but instead, you’re dying in love with person B, who you think loves you back but who isn’t uttering a word to confirm it. This is when you refer to the list of signs to find out whether it’s possible that person B loves you, or do you have to accept realities and lower your bar to meet the demands of person A.

Now, person A has an obsessive need to point out one or two interpretable True Emotion Mirror signs and insist that there’s this time when they guessed you were going to call them just on that minute, that it proves you’re telepathic and that is a certain sign that you’re , and besides, your life path numbers are the same. They give you a tirade of signs that should prove to you that you owe them a chance. If you then give them a chance, and you find you’re still not in love with them after a year or two, they cannot believe how you led them on for all that time even though you knew you don’t love them…

There is really no point in getting into an argument with person A if you can avoid it. Just block them and ignore them as much as they give you space to do so. Instead, you look into the list of True Emotion Mirror signs and have a good, level-headed ponder if there’s anything there in regards to B or whether even the concept of true love that you may have is in any way a feasible goal to hold out for. You may have not found your True Emotion Mirror yet, and nearing 30, you may start feeling awfully naive believing in it, but you just keep on believing. It’s real, and any doubt in your mind will be used against you by those who want to convince you to lower your bar for them.

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