Just because someone doesn’t love you, doesn’t mean they hate you.

This is something not all people understand: there are emotions between love and hate. Shades. If someone breaks up with you simply because they don’t love you, it doesn’t mean they intend to turn into your enemy. They just don’t love you enough for what your relationship needs for them to love you, whether it was a casual fling, a marriage, or maybe even a platonic friendship. They may not love you, but that doesn’t mean you did something wrong or they ‘hate you,’ even if it may feel that way to you if you do love them. Also check if you loved them for the illusion that they loved you; did you insist that they give you that illusion? Did you accuse them for some form of “bad person” if they didn’t love you? Did you basically instruct them to lie to you right from the start? If so, maybe it isn’t them you should be angry at.

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