Just because THEY ARE working on themselves, doesn’t mean you don’t have to work on yourself.

This is very much a True Emotion Mirror thing. There seems to be a situation where one half of the equation is doing their inner work to ready themselves for the relationship, but the other one isn’t. By focusing on your own work, you may send the signal that you’re the problem, when, in fact, you’re not…  Or they are sending that signal.

NONE OF US is without flaws. Never make a mistake where you think a relationship problem is only one party’s problem and the other one of you is pristine perfect. Still, those who are good at life know that they CAN change themselves much more efficiently than changing another person. Sometimes, you’ll self-heal, and that may seem selfish to your partner when you don’t attempt to help them self-heal, depending on your perspective… Working on yourself is ALWAYS a favor to other people the same as it is a favor to yourself, but there are people who only see it one way or the other… Selfish or selfless… When it’s neither. It’s just sensible and serves everybody in your life.

If you have never taken the time to self-reflect to see whether you might be a part of the problem… You most certainly are.

Your loved ones cannot fix you if you don’t actively try to fix yourself. You cannot fix a loved one who isn’t actively trying to fix themselves. You can’t FORCE another person into doing this work, but at the same time, if they don’t, they will remain without a functioning relationship of this nature, whereas you will – sooner or later in the cosmic sense.

Biggest problem: The way you see yourself and the way your relationship threatens your ego.

We all have an ego; an idea of self. An understanding of what we are. What we mean by the word “I.” Often, this idea of self is tested when a new person enters into your life. What are you? A cheater? Gay? A pervert? Coward? NOT the ladies’ man or not quite the man-trap that you thought you were?

A True Emotion Mirror brings about your actual truth. It forces you to see yourself for who you truly are – if you don’t, you can’t have that relationship. If you’re not ready to live from the truth, you cannot live peacefully with your True Emotion Mirror – especially a True Emotion Mirror who DOES live authentically in harmony with their truthful self; warts and all.

A lot of the times, the True Emotion Mirror still not ready to face themselves will try to stuff their counterpart back into a box. “You’re revealing us. Hide.”

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