Killing your own hope.
There are times in one’s life when having hope is not actually healthy. There is a point when you have to set your sights on something new and different, but when should you do it?
If you ask me, FORCING yourself (let alone someone else) is never a good idea. Your brain is geared toward something for SOME reason; your attention is targeted at something FOR A REASON, even if what you think you’re doing isn’t the thing you’re actually after.
I’m not saying that whatever you are currently into certainly ISN’T THE THING, and I’m certainly not saying that you’d be disappointed if it wasn’t. Your subconsciousness has given you the all-clear to obsess over this, so it must agree it’s for the better. You have given yourself the task of obsessing over whatever it is.
EVENTUALLY, you will learn which way to go. You’re gathering information or experience. Whatever you’re learning doing what you’re doing won’t go wasted, I promise.
Rather than trying to force your attention away from whatever you’re obsessed over, redouble your efforts and try to make a better time going through it. The more you fight it, the longer it’s going to take you.
Your hope will die when it’s time for it to, and not a moment sooner.
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**) Narcissists are Young Souls left alone to survive and they're doing their best. Their emotional age ranges from 3 to 17 -year old. The younger, the more severe the narcissism.
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