“Learning” spirituality; don’t expect to be spoon fed

I just had the best thing happen. And this is stupid because I should be excited about THIS part, but I am. For years now I’ve been telling this one guy in the spirit that mate, I love you, but I don’t know what is wrong, I can’t LOVE you. I just don’t know what it is. So. A few weeks ago I realized that hey, what actually happens is that if I sense another woman’s energy in a guy’s being, in his heart, as in, if he hasn’t fully let go of someone (I think I blogged about this, maybe) I can’t fall in love with him. It’s like… Trying to light a fire in a bucket of water, so I am not rejecting him, I am rejecting the woman that he is still in love with.

Now… Way before, I’ve been writing about how to let go of someone, and I told people to simply love the person more, not less, and to love them so much, that they finally become more important than you are, and therefore, their freedom becomes more important to you than your own needs regarding them.

So… He took one bit of information, combined it with the other, came back to me and asked: “What are my chances?” Instant flair up!

Granted. As soon as I got into the picture, she returned, turned me off, and I guess we’re back to square one, but the point of the matter is that he didn’t wait to be told every possible scenario of every situation he will ever face in his life for him, but he combined information so that he could come to a working solution FOR HIM.

Don’t expect teachers to spoon feed you information. I know when you were a kid, you were probably told not to do this (usually because what you were taught wasn’t compatible information, such as science to religion and guys like him would drive the teachers mad asking questions “if that is true then how come that is true at the same time, those two things don’t go together!” And because teachers don’t know how to answer questions like these, when they’ve only been taught to think one topic at a time rather than in the ADHD power brain mode, that takes everything into account at once (a brain of a genius I say, but problematic for people who can’t think but one thing at a time) they get confused, want to shut up the guy asking questions, label him an idiot and the rest is history. We learn not to question things or “we are bad kids”.

So. That teaches you two things: Remember to doubt your teacher. Combine information that you need for yourself.

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