Let your True Emotion Mirror be boring.

Listen up because it’s likely I’ll only say this once.

I keep emphasizing how AMAZING and powerful the feelings between True Emotion Mirrors are. How even their breathing is awestriking, how everything about them excites you… And while this is true, it is important to let them know they don’t have to work double-time to entertain you, but that they are perfectly allowed to be boring with you. That they can just exist in your company.

Watch TV together sometimes. The shopping channel if you’re brave enough.

You don’t have to make an event out of boring, but just let them know, discretely, that they don’t have to entertain you all the time to keep you.

Don’t fear losing their interest.

True Emotion Mirrors often fear losing their partner’s interest, considering their partner is so wonderfully exciting themselves that they wonder how long can they keep their interest for. However, that’s the amazing thing about your True Emotion Mirror; everything they do is wonderful for you… And the fact they’d want to stay home to watch TV with you feels amazing – no matter who you are. Therefore, once you’re even remotely brave enough, ask them to do something mundane with you, and if you have shielded them from the mundanity of your life, stop doing it. They want to be a part of everything in your life, even the nasty bits. That’s called marriage.

The thing is, the more mundane your life becomes, the more obviously you notice how amazing it is with The One… Even if the mundane parts were fleeting between crazy adventures.

This excitement culture is not great for True Emotion Mirror stress.

I may have made matters worse in some sense by trying to emphasize how CRAZY True Emotion Mirror relationships can be. However, they can take it all, the insane, the adventurous, the sexual experimentations, the pains, suffering, and the mundane and boring. Currently, in this day and age, everyone is constantly trying to optimize their time usage, their productivity, their social media presence, their overall fabulousness, but your True Emotion Mirror won’t think any less of you if you let your standards slide here and there. That is NOT TO SAY you should stop aiming for the best if that is in alignment with your true spirit, but it is to say that you don’t have to be “always on” with your True Emotion Mirror(s). You can simply… Stop and be.

And frankly, I do over-emphasize the BIG FEELINGS because I am desperately lacking big feelings myself and feel FORCED into boring by my Trail Companions*, and I am bored with boring, but even so, we MUST know that boring is one test of the True Emotion Mirror -connection that it can easily clear. Your True Emotion Mirrors find the same things exciting and vitalizing as you do, but everybody needs a level of boring at times.

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