Letting go and holding on – the balance point to find with your True Emotion Mirror

Life is a constant balancing act. We tend to over-correct sometimes, when we realize we’ve made a mistake, we tend to over-correct to the other extreme. Letting go is one of those things. When we realize we are hurting someone we love by desperately hanging onto them despite them not loving us back, we stop hanging on to ANYONE at all, and let go of our True Emotion Mirrors completely. Now. Letting go is a good thing, but there is a point where too much of the good thing lands us into trouble, too. Let me explain.

The condition to even HAVE a True Emotion Mirror is the ability to let go and love beyond your own needs

Letting go of control of another person and their feelings is the absolute requirement to find true love. You do not NEED TO control your true lover because he or she loves you as much as you love them. If that is not the case, you are hanging onto something that was never yours to begin with. If they do not come back to you without you having to force it, they don’t love you the way you wish they did, or it’s not the time for it yet. The natural consequence of hanging onto someone who doesn’t love you is losing the chance to love a person who DOES love you back. You HAVE TO let go of the ones you love just to KNOW whether they’re yours or not. How does the old saying goes;

“If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it’s yours. If not, it was never meant to be.”

HOWEVER. Letting go when he or she is already yours…

Now… You don’t have to force your True Emotion Mirror to be with you. They WANT TO be with you more than anything else in this world. HOWEVER, things are never quite as simple as that. What we WANT is not always what we believe we can have. Therefore, if you let go before your True Emotion Mirror believes they can have you, you may have given them the impression they cannot have the one they want… You.

You have to be CERTAIN the person you love and want KNOWS you want them before you set them free. They MUST KNOW you love them before you set them free. They may not even believe you when you tell them, if their belief that they are never truly loved is too strongly pressed on them, you may have to be much more obvious and clear-worded than what you ever dream to be necessary. It can be surprising how unbelievably lucky another person would feel if YOU loved them, so you may not have told them CLEARLY ENOUGH that you do, in fact, set your watch by them like they were the Sun in the sky.

Forcing your will

There is a point in a True Emotion Mirror relationship when you have to “FORCE” them to stay. However, this “force” should never be… REAL force. There are people who think they have to break the will of the one they want. Like breaking a wild horse into submission and obedience. THIS IS ABSOLUTELY 100% NOT what I want anyone to do with ANYONE. It is abusive, it’s toxic, and it will make you enemies with the very person you wish to love.

However… With a True Emotion Mirror, there is a point when you have to put your foot down and tell them they must stay with you. You’ll feel when the time is right, the feeling will guide you. This is the point where you have to erase the last doubts in their mind when they truly wish to know you are serious about wanting them. Before this moment, you are not truly together yet. You will have to declare they are yours. And you know you’ve got the right person by the smile that will (attempt to) appear on their face when you put your foot down. They must look HAPPY to have you lock them into a paradise – your presence.

If the reaction is anger, you’re attempting to imprison someone else’s True Emotion Mirror, and that isn’t right. You are in the process of making soul-bond enemies out of the person you’re trying to hold and their True Emotion Mirror or potentially several of them. For your own good, stop. Nobody hates another person more than the person stopping them from going to their True Emotion Mirror.

Letting go of their emotions.

Some of us try to force their True Emotion Mirror to love them. You’re trying to hold on and control how they feel about you. Therefore, another way of thinking about this is that you can hold onto the person, when you let go of their love. You will have to allow them to love you or not love you freely, while you still may hold onto that person in some way.

The silver lining

If your True Emotion Mirror is being held by someone, as has happened to me. When a person you DO NOT LOVE holds power over you, any doubt in your mind about whether you love that person or not will soon disappear. Therefore, if there are rivals to your soul bond, it is possible your True Emotion Mirror is given the full experience of what it’s like to live and love that person, and whether it is truly what they want.

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