Letting go of the outcome of True Emotion Mirrors.

You have to trust something: the person who you are is attractive to the person(s) who is (are) your True Emotion Mirror(s) and Precious Soulmates. No matter how you do it. The way YOU do YOU is what is attractive to the right people. While your True Emotion Mirrors want you to charm them, they really do; they can also get in the way of it. They may not trust that you can bring forth the true you if they give you free hands to do it – ironically – so you have to, at some stage, let go of the outcome of it; you do you even if that winds up being off-putting to the biggest loves of your life.

TRUST that you will be exactly right for your Destination Soulmates* – that is the entire point the term itself wants to convey.

Why the blog if doing things your way is always the best anyway?

Half of the purpose of this blog is to point out that your natural way is your natural way, and it’s the right way for you. Secondly, there comes the realization that THEIR WAY is their way, and they do what they do for their reasons. You don’t have to go along with it, even though THEY believe it’s the right way for everybody (they consider to be like them, like men/women), rather than just them.

You can improve your understanding others, your communication skills, and try to react to others’ MEANING rather than their words or behavior. You should react to what they MEAN TO SAY one way or another – and if that meaning means something to you. You can convey the message YOU WANT TO SEND OUT better when you understand the people you’re sending that message. Sometimes, that message must be put between the lines, as there are people who never even glance at the text on the lines. To them, text itself is like the calories rather than the nutrition.

There is something to be said in favor of TRYING to sway people, too.

There is a merit to a person’s need to stand in the way of other people’s happiness and contest what they truly want out of life, too. It is somewhat fair that we don’t get everything we want until we’ve carefully considered whether we truly want it and given everything else a fair try.

When I was 17 or so, I wrote into my diary/notebook whatever it was; “What would be so special about true love if it was easy to find?” It was suitably naive for a 17-year-old, true love is special, no matter how it comes to you, but you will start to take it for granted a bit. And you assume everyone else should find love just as easily; “Look, there, there’s a single man! Grab him!” It’s much, much more fun with bullshit around, you know? It’s a part of the game, but there’s a point when you just have had enough.

So, back to the topic.

You know there are certain things you want to do, no matter what, yes? You SEE the merrit in doing things in another way. There’s a lot of arguments in favor of the other way of doing things, yes? Still, you WANT TO do it this way. You want to do it the hard way. 😀 YOU KNOW IT.

I say do it the hard way. Go over the fence where the fence is highest if you must. It poses a challenge. Usually, where the fence is highest, what’s behind is is a higher reward. Where the fence is lowest, you usually will wind up making sacrifices on the other side.

You want to do it the hard way to teach  yourself something, so that your life on the other side will flow easier.

And even if you just want the challenge, for the sake of challenge like a fucken Candy Crush game, do a Candy Crush.

Your way MUST BE good enough for those who truly fucking love you. The truth is, for as long as you fight your true will, your true love will avoid you. Go do your thing.

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