Libertine* Spirit Mirror AND the Enigma (and their Chaser)

This maybe a little bit confusing, but let me try and make this clearer:

Libertine* Spirit Mirror is a very sexually attractive person with no sexual hang-ups whatsoever. Enjoys sexual relationships and love, a natural polyamorist, doesn’t hold barriers from others sexually speaking, and allows others really close really fast, making it easy for others to feel loved and accepted near them. The Libertine* Spirit Mirror may not be obviously talented or even good looking, they simply possess a MASSIVE sexual charisma that draws their preferred gender in masses. (I speak very little of the female variant, as men get less confused with this type of a soulmate than women do. Men are very perceptive of whether the feelings are real or sexual, due to them being warned about it much more than women have.)

The Enigma is an unusually talented, skilled, attractive person who is above others by most measures anyone thinks of using. Multitalented, they have a large “contact area” making it easy for people to feel “just like them” because they possess so many different skills and traits. The Enigma MAY have sexual hang-ups, however, or be completely asexual or monogamous, whereas the Libertine* Spirit Mirror cannot. (Examples: Johnny Depp, Nuno Bettencourt.)

One person can be both a Libertine* Spirit Mirror AND an Enigma, and an Enigma can easily become a Libertine* as well, should they work through their sexual hang-ups. Both types may be either male or female. (Examples: Steven Tyler and Russell Brand.)

A LOT OF assumed True Emotion Mirrors are actually either a Libertine* or an Enigma or both.

The Libertine* Spirit Mirror

The Libertine* Spirit Mirror is perhaps the most confusing of all types in terms of finding true love. They love sex, they love their preferred gender(s) and they make an easy connection to a lot of people due to their charisma and attitude. They can make a normal person feel like a million bucks by simply being noticed by them. They make you feel like nothing you’ve ever felt before, and this is simply because of the way they are, rather than the way their lovers are. They are easy to be with, because they don’t have sexual hangups, and they easily release other people into expressing themselves sexually without feeling embarrassed or lacking, they are sexually speaking very non-demanding and simply happy to be with you, or delightfully self-confidently dominant making you feel wanted and appreciated, and also, guided.

It is important to understand that they do not intend to deceive anyone into believing the relationship would have a future, they simply love to love. They also consider true love to be such a rarity, that it makes sense to enjoy one’s ride getting there. They are perfectly capable to feel love, it’s just that they love so many people and so many people love them that they HAVE TO put them in order of preference and not continue their relationship with ALL of them. They also assume that a lot of people enjoy casual sex as much as they do, so they do not feel they are deceiving anyone by making love to someone they’ve never met, only to never meet them again later, either.

A Don Juan/Aphrodite in their natural state would be, pardon the expression, somewhat of a sexual tourist attraction. A night with Mick Jagger, Russell Brand, or Steven Tyler would be valuable in itself, without any expectations of a real relationship with them.

Enigmas

Remember, a Libertine* Spirit Mirror can also be an Enigma, although neither is not automatically both.

An Enigma is an unusually talented, skilled, and good-looking, often sexually attractive individual, and even more often sexually attractive despite physical appearance. They are highly intelligent, creative, and unusually multi-talented, making them rank pretty high by any scale a person might want to measure them on. They inspire love in other people, but they are rarely completely impressed by other people because they know what people CAN DO by having done it themselves. They often feel a little underwhelmed by the lacks in other people, but they hide it well, because otherwise, they’d go around pointing fingers at anyone shouting out: “Compared to me, you’re a loser, you’re a loser, too, hey, LOOOSER!” And mind you, they most often have impeccable manners, too, so that wouldn’t do at all!

The Enigmas maybe artists, philosophers, scientists or whatever career they want to pursue. They are highly intelligent, but not necessarily successful, but usually will turn out to be eventually. It takes a normalcy loving the Normal Person* or a few to keep them from succeeding, otherwise, they’re relatively certain success story waiting to happen. As their talents are so far and wide, they offer a large “contact space” for a lot of people to feel “just like them” even though, very often the people who think themselves “just like them” are woefully lacking in comparison, and the Enigmas are painfully aware of that difference in levels.

I could make a sweeping statement and say that every celebrity is either an Enigma or a Libertine* Spirit Mirror, but not all Enigmas or Libertine* Spirit Mirrors are celebrities. I would say that the ONLY possible exception to this rule is celebrities whose parents were celebrities and who were literally trained to become a celebrity (as opposed to being simply famous by association) themselves. Some child stars could possibly apply, too. This is not to say a child star can’t be an Enigma or a Libertine* Spirit Mirror, quite possibly they were, just that if there is an exception to this rule, that’s where you’d find them.

Both the Libertine* Spirit Mirror and Enigma have troubled relationships

It is both their blessing and their curse, that so many people fall helplessly in love with these people. Even at the best of circumstances, they’re spoiled for choice, and when monogamy is an expectation, the obvious result tends to be serial monogamy, although both would probably thrive in some form of polygamy. Even then, their authentic true partners are also either Libertine* Spirit Mirrors, Enigmas, or both.

What is the curse in being loved by everybody is that no matter how extraordinary a person is, the extent to which a less evolved soul can value a person is always limited to their own level. This means that they give top marks to, if using the IQ scale, everyone else within about 10, 20 points above themselves at best. This means that if the person evaluating the Enigma has an IQ of 90, they could only appreciate the Enigma’s IQ up to 110 or 120 tops, even if they had an IQ of 200.

This is because the observer cannot understand, from their own limited perspective, what is the use for the added IQ points, and how does that relate to a relationship if there’s “enough love to go around”. This means that while the Enigma feels that the other person is lacking 110 IQ points, the person with the IQ of 90 thinks this person is quite sufficiently intelligent for them. The same might apply to any other measuring scale you want to use, but the IQ is a pretty good example as it quite covers all areas of life, even if IQ is only measured in one small section of intelligence.

So, as all of these people with the IQ between 90 up to a 190 flock up to the person with an IQ of 200, they tend to block the way from the people who the Enigma would ACTUALLY be able to level with. Because they tend to have to knock back offers from left, right and centre, and because they have observed how CLUELESS other people are about their level of IQ, they are always afraid that they might be blind to their own limitations in comparison to their authentic partner, the True Emotion Mirror, and that makes them cautious to approach or to be too bold approaching, let alone chasing someone. So no other person runs from their True Emotion Mirror as fast as an Enigma or a Libertine* Spirit Mirror! (This is why it is superbly important for Enigma TrEmoRs to emphasis to each other how smart/talented/amazing they feel the other one is, just to make sure they know that feeling is mutual, at least.)

The Enigma / Libertine* Spirit Mirror Chaser

The people who set on a long-term chase of an Enigma or a Libertine* Spirit Mirror have probably never rejected anyone’s kind or respectful advances in their entire lives. They may be of a relatively low IQ, nothing much to call a talent, but the reason why they chase someone of such caliber is that they fall in love with their friendliness. Most Enigmas and Libertine* Spirit Mirrors are actually pretty nice people, they have no need to do patch up on their ego, so they can treat everyone with a level of friendliness and kindness that is unusual in the people of a lower IQ, used to using elbow-tactics to get ahead, therefore, they get stunned by friendliness and unconditional love, which is a typical way to approach others to the Enigma and the Libertine* Spirit Mirror.

The Chaser often thinks they are rescuing the Enigma or the Libertine* Spirit Mirror from a meaningless life. To them, all meaning in life is created through friends, family, and a spouse, therefore, as the Enigma is often married to their work and the Libertine* Spirit Mirror is too busy luring people into their beds, the Chaser believes they are simply “filling out an empty life” and needs a rescuer. They also see everyone else who is going for the same Enigma?Don Juan as a somehow flawed individual, particularly other Enigmas and Libertine* Spirit Mirrors, who, to a (the Normal Person*) feel shallow due to their lack of normal social life… (And by “normal” I mean “boring” as far as either Enigma or Libertine* Spirit Mirror is concerned).

The most difficult aspect to understand about the Chaser’s way of thinking is that they actually despise and pity this person, but simply feel they’re “worth rescuing” as in “not all is lost about them”… “There’s still goodness in them”, rather than love them for all of the amazing things that they are, the very things that have racked up such a large fan base for these people – a silent or a loud fan base, depends on what they do for a living…

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