Love tourism – the third of a couple – sexual attraction to momentary love.

Today, I discovered there’s another type of sexuality that I’ve been only semi-aware of. It’s called symbiosexuality. It means that you’re sexually attracted to a pre-existing couple and their ‘synergy.’ Me as a cynic, I sometimes find a little ‘mocky’ explanations to be quite effective; it seems like a type of love tourism; you are a third to a couple, you enjoy their sexuality and love, and then leave. Where we’re used to sex tourism, you do what you do and leave, symbiosexuals visit a couple for kicks and leave again, refreshed and happier than before.

There’s nothing wrong with that if you’re into it, but know that “it’s just love” is not a thing that you convince people to give into your romantic or sexual demands. Deliberate refreshing temporary “flings” and love tourism may be quite the thing for some people but downright offensive to others. Don’t push it. Love raping is still not cool, and it’s certainly not “just love,” any more than unwanted sex is “just sex.” (Sorry, I’ve been receiving this type of unwanted attraction for too long to ignore the eww-factor, but with consenting partners, all’s good.)

And, now, I’m aware of another variation: sexual attraction to temporary love.

I don’t know what this might be called. Because the way I look at it, you have sex, and then, as a secondary emotion, you may love a stranger. These people do it the other way around; they love a stranger for as long as it takes to have sex with them, and then the love dies as they orgasm… Often enough.

Flings are a variation of this; sometimes, people have quite deliberate flings with someone to experience the emotions of a deeply bonded love relationship, even though they know it’s going to be temporary. They love, they cum, and they go.

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