Male- and Female communication styles; what are we missing?

Although generally speaking, the stereotypical naming of these two communication styles helps you understand what kind of a personality we are talking about, these styles are not gender specific. Men can be fethe Old Souls* as well as women can be the Old Souls*, but for the purpose of underlining the differences in communication styles and to make it more obvious for anyone to pick up on, I am using the terms Male-thinker and Female-thinker for this post and the accompanied videos. I am also using the terms the Old Souls* Personality (male) and the Young Soul* Personality (female) in other contexts.

When a Fethe Old Souls* needs to bring up something that she is nervous about discussing, she approaches the matter by demonstrating her emotions so blatantly that others should find it difficult to miss what she is intending to say. Because a Male-thinker does not do that, but they rather subdue their emotions, especially when it is important, they most likely miss her cues completely or take them as a personal insult. The Fethe Old Souls* is trying to approach a topic gently, and the Male-thinker takes it as an assault.

Watch my video series on Male- and Female-thinkers’ communication styles for few pointers:

Because the Male-thinker never thinks as a part of a unit as much as he thinks on an individual level, he makes his decisions independently as much as possible, and also he expects everyone else to do the same. The difference in the communication styles again land people in trouble, because a Female-thinker expects things to be decided on as a couple, (family, group or any unit) they feel that anyone making independent decisions that should not affect the behavior of others to them, is forcing a decision on them even if that was never the intent of the Male-thinker. See how a Male-thinker’s decision of not drinking makes a Female-thinker assume she also should not be drinking if she intends to stay in good terms with the Male-thinker:

A Fethe Old Souls* thinks: If you do that, I have to do that. If you jump, I jump. A Male-thinker thinks: I jump if I want to, you jump if you want to. This dynamic changes slightly when a Male-Thinker is truly madly in love and in a relationship with his True Emotion Mirrors , then he will start thinking in the “we” pattern, but for as long as they are not head over heels in love, they are thinking “I” and “you”. Female-thinkers think in a we-pattern regardless of their feelings for the people surrounding them.

Because of the ways Male-thinkers and Female-thinkers communication styles differ, living together can be quite painful for both parties. I do not recommend close living arrangements with these thinker types mixed, particularly if the Female-thinker has nobody else around to talk to and will be forced to drag the Male-thinker into her style of keeping up the continual light chatter. Here’s a little vid on how the living arrangements work between Male- and Female-thinkers:

The way Male- and Female-thinkers think, the concept of a break up is virtually incomprehensible for a Female-thinker. Not UNTHINKABLE, but incomprehensible. It does not make sense. Often, a breakup between a Male-thinker who wants to let people off easy and a Female-thinker who doesn’t understand the concept of a break up fully remains ambiguous and there will be no closure, particularly for the Female-thinker who can hold onto the relationship for years after, because he cannot communicate in a way she can understand. So here’s a tip:

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