Masculinity and Femininity

Masculinity, in its essence, is about taking responsibility for other people’s well-being (and happiness). Femininity is about making other people’s lives more pleasant (and beautiful). Childishness is about caring about nobody but yourself; focusing on your own growth and survival. The childish responsibility, thus, is to grow to one day be able to take responsibility for others, but that is not a child’s concern yet.

Having said that, we all do all of those things; we should always grow, we should always take care of other people’s well-being, and strive to make their lives more pleasant, but the division of priority could be said to be such.

With that division of responsibility comes the dress: to look respectable and dependable or to look pleasant and beautiful. Mixing masculinity and femininity goes beyond dresses and trousers, such that a man who is in touch with his femininity should, in addition to looking respectable and dependable, look beautiful and pleasant…. A woman who is in touch with her masculinity should, in addition to looking pleasant and beautiful look respectable and dependable, as well.

Children focus on themselves.

Children reduce masculinity and femininity into dresses and trousers, and other non-primary gender signals. And at the end of the day, the thing that truly makes us men and women are our genitals. Everything else is very fluid, as they say, and they are not a reason to transition genders. Our first duty, whether we are born male or female, is to ensure that we are doing all that we can to ensure other people are better off having us in their lives rather than not, no matter how we do it. (If they don’t return the favor, they can be left behind.)

In this gender-transitioning world, your first duty is to TRY and accept your physical gender as your mental gender as well. Try to focus, rather than pondering whether you’re a boy or a girl, try to figure out WHAT KIND of a boy or a girl you might be. HOW will you best do your ADULT duty to others; how do you ensure others will have a better life because you’re in it? Whether you wear a dress or trousers doing it is very, very irrelevant.

You also need to wonder who your primary concern is; whose life, what individual or group of people do you want to better by being in it? Your parents, siblings, family, your boyfriends, girlfriends, men, women, children, orphans, homeless people… Who is your primary concern? Don’t shy away from that responsibility, but if your answer is “myself,” then don’t expect anything from anyone else, either, after you turn 17… Male or female.

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